"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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be Honest with yourself

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frivolousz21

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I dont post much anymore...I dont need to...I am past Sosuave and I look back on it and understand what it did for me..and does for everyone here.

I suppose state of mind is how we define everyday.


anyways, the best advice I can give you is to be honest with yourself...then you can go out, set goals, and achieve them.


the internet is the easiest place to be something your not.

from day 1 of SS I got flamed all the time..because I was honest. but by being honest with myself and my postings...it took a very short period of time to use the knowledge the DJ bible helped me aquire.

Ive read over posts today...and so many posts are pure garbage written by KBJ's or misguided souls....

take a look in the mirror and see what you are, and who you are. the reality of it.

then decide what you need to change to better yourself.


I can tell you that the changes you make and the goals you seek are much much much easier then you realize.



Also as a side note..dont flame, put down, or talk trash to others on the internet....think about how much of a loser you have to be to get a joy out of it...everytime I posted and saw other posters who are posting here today call me names..I thought wow, just wow...what a sorry place they have to be in to feel compelled as adults to do that.



good luck
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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You've been making these posts all the time, shut the **** up if you think you're so great.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by KingRich
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I love how the eyes bug out! Makes so much more sense when you say nothing but the boot.

P.S. Friv, that is so true. It justs sounds so gay that nobody wants to hear it. Just like seduction, there are certain things NOBODY wants to hear.
 
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Most people are losers and they don't even realise it.
 
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Great, now she thinks her posts are worthy of the tips section. Shes upgraded herself in her own mind, your garbage isnt even fit for girlproblems.com yet here you are with delusions of grandeur.


"Be honest with yourself"???

Well thankyou Dr Phil for that grey area non practical and "safe" piece of non information that means nothing to any man.
Can you be anymore obtuse? Here let me try .....

"You only get out what you put in."

Hey this is easy.


Also as a side note..dont flame, put down, or talk trash to others on the internet....
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what a tool.
 
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