"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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be Honest with yourself

frivolousz21

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I dont post much anymore...I dont need to...I am past Sosuave and I look back on it and understand what it did for me..and does for everyone here.

I suppose state of mind is how we define everyday.


anyways, the best advice I can give you is to be honest with yourself...then you can go out, set goals, and achieve them.


the internet is the easiest place to be something your not.

from day 1 of SS I got flamed all the time..because I was honest. but by being honest with myself and my postings...it took a very short period of time to use the knowledge the DJ bible helped me aquire.

Ive read over posts today...and so many posts are pure garbage written by KBJ's or misguided souls....

take a look in the mirror and see what you are, and who you are. the reality of it.

then decide what you need to change to better yourself.


I can tell you that the changes you make and the goals you seek are much much much easier then you realize.



Also as a side note..dont flame, put down, or talk trash to others on the internet....think about how much of a loser you have to be to get a joy out of it...everytime I posted and saw other posters who are posting here today call me names..I thought wow, just wow...what a sorry place they have to be in to feel compelled as adults to do that.



good luck
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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You've been making these posts all the time, shut the **** up if you think you're so great.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Originally posted by KingRich
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I love how the eyes bug out! Makes so much more sense when you say nothing but the boot.

P.S. Friv, that is so true. It justs sounds so gay that nobody wants to hear it. Just like seduction, there are certain things NOBODY wants to hear.
 

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Most people are losers and they don't even realise it.
 

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Great, now she thinks her posts are worthy of the tips section. Shes upgraded herself in her own mind, your garbage isnt even fit for girlproblems.com yet here you are with delusions of grandeur.


"Be honest with yourself"???

Well thankyou Dr Phil for that grey area non practical and "safe" piece of non information that means nothing to any man.
Can you be anymore obtuse? Here let me try .....

"You only get out what you put in."

Hey this is easy.


Also as a side note..dont flame, put down, or talk trash to others on the internet....
what a tool.
 
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