Be HONEST with your STATUS...

[neobrood]

Honestly, what do you think is your "status"? How would you rate yourself?

- Way below AFC
- AFC
- Recovering AFC
- Don Juan
- Senior Don Juan
- Master Don Juan

 

[Dirtheart]

I've put Don Juan. The reason being is that I now feel I have the Don Juan mindset. My mind and my life is under my control and I'm having the success I want with women.

However, I wouldn't call myself a senior or master, because I do still have some AFC urges that I need to resist from time to time and still have the odd question or dilemma I need advice with. What's more, I am keeping my mind open to improvement.

 

[WBAFC]

guess what I voted for

 

[zerocelcius]

neither, but trying to be MDJ

I have always been somthing diffrent. I am an unattached, Emotion refusing, Jerk, but I want to be a MDJ. I have always used girls for some reason or another. I have no problem getting girls to bend to what I want. I just was never dependant on the quality of girl just if they had the right emotional dependancies that worked in to the equation. I am a Hornivore to the max (okcupid.com)!!! But am working on the DJ thing... oh and a 9.8 on hotornot.com..

 

[Don Juanabbe]

Recovering AFC. Been working on it awhile, still have lapses on a fairly frequent basis. It takes time to change, I accept that I won't get out of it for awhile yet because you can't change the conditioning of an entire lifetime in 6 months. That's just the way of things, I liken it to someone who has been fat all their life and has finally decided to get fit. It takes working on, and like playing an instrument, you need to practice to get better.

 

[comic_relief]

I have the DJ mindset down, I can do the convo thing rather well, I can spot women that flirt with me(smileys on my hamburger and such) but I still can't drive so no dates. I hate double dating with other people. This september is what I am waiting for. Drivers license.

I did find myself though and that makes me happy. I am in control of my own life and I make my own decisions.

 

[Trance]

Hmmm
- im emotionally independent.
- have a couple of girls i can be with
- improved my looks, but still i wanna improve more
- know the fundaments of all the DJ
- just need to get laid in a very regular basis to complete my DJ

 

[JT47319]

A rAFC is the same thing as a Don Juan. There is no upward DJ progression beyond being a DJ/AFC/KJ. There is, rather, an entirely different status.

 

[So pimp its scary]

Before I vote, give a description of how one would qualify as AFC, etc.

 

[SDBmania]

Ehh. RAFC. I'm getting closer to DJ, but still got a ways. I'm just not quite ready to cold approach. Although I have asked out at least 4 girls so far, all of which I knew a little bit, I still have yet to attempt a cold approach. I've come really close very recently and I notice that I get more and more confident around women each day. I believe that once I get more confortable with flirting and establish myself in that area, then I will see more inprovement.

 

[neobrood]

Before I vote, give a description of how one would qualify as AFC, etc.

[NOTE: THIS IS JUST MY OPINION...]

Way below AFC
- the ULTIMATE LOSER. Is afraid to even talk to a woman... as if woman is from another planet. Gets nervous and uncomfortable even in seeing porno films. Social skills are non-existent or very low level. Gets nervous even in entering bars and clubs... feels kinda "alien" to that place. In some cases, damn f*ckin obsessed with AFC animes//movies//songs//comics and imitates them or follows em religiously... Dorks, geeks, and 90% of people who hang in card gameshops playing yugi-oh, pokemon, and beyblade... You get the idea...

Usually a product of overprotective parenting... the type when parents keep callin em up every now and then and asking too many questions like a police officer.

I swear... I was once AT THIS STAGE so I know how its like to be a WBAFC...


AFC
- Looks very normal. Blends in to the average crowd. Can talk to women but is always or most of the time ends up in the "friend zone"... Social skills "okay" with other guys but sometimes tenses up with women.

Recovering AFC
- Working his way up to being a DJ. More confident than afc, and approaches more women with confidence. Sometimes gets nervous and afc self comes back again...

Still at a stage of "confusion" and sometimes gets "depressed". Why am I acting like this? Am I being myself? Why is it that sometimes I become afc again? There is still a battle of two forces within him. What will I be? Am I sure I'm gonna be a DJ? Or maybe I will be AFC again?

Recovering AFCs are sometimes easy to sway by AFC teachings of this world. Their minds are still fragile. Rejection still affects them... and may revert to being AFC or WBAFC again...

Don Juan
- Feels complete. Very confident in approaching both men and women. sometimes becomes afc but its like 10% chance only (Recovering AFCs chance to become afc again is 50%).

Sometimes gets problems here and there... Just because he is confident and feels complete doesnt mean he has big success with women. His skills still need to be polished. This guy still has a reasonable chance of getting rejected. But unlike the recovering AFC or lower, rejections do not affect him. He is eager to learn from his mistakes.

Senior Don Juan
- Like a Don Juan... but makes very few mistakes and he only has a low probability of rejection or failure in "conquest".

If DJism is like the military, this guy is something like a major or colonel...


Master Don Juan
- Is a master of C and F, neghits, kino, and all the techniques. Can get any woman he likes. Can seduce chicks with boyfriends, Can do cold approaches with much success, very good conversationalist, can seduce women (with success) in very short time limits... Doesnt need to think anymore what he is supposed to do because it comes natural for him.

This guy gets rejected still... but something like 1 out of 100 times.

If DJism is like the military, this guy is something like a general.

 

[Pimp-sicle]

Honestly before my recent nightmare with this HB7.5 with a personality disorder, I would've considered myself to be somewhere between a Senior DJ and a Master DJ. I seduced her @ss away from her bf, fuvked her the 2nd time we hung out and had her all over my nutz. At the time I was banging 2 other girls and all 3 of her close sorority sisters wanted me too. I ended up hooking up with 2 of those girls as well (one of those girl's had a bf at the time too.. )and the 3rd one drove all the way out to my house (30 miles), took me to lunch and drove... This girl is a good friend of mine now, but she buys me alcohol, food and tells me how "hot" I am on a regular basis. I'm actually thinking about laying her pretty soon because I'm in a little bit of a dry streak right now...(it suxs)

Anyways, I'm recovering from that nightmare as I said, so I'd drop my confidence level back down to in between a DJ and Senior DJ. I have no problem approaching, I always know I have the girl before I even approach based on non-verbal IOI. And I'm very confident with who I am.


PIMP

 

[AFCinBC]

Not Sure

Uh I'm not sure where I fit in maybe Way below average, I have no problems approaching HB's or anyone else but I'm also a complete Introvert I automaticly take a step back no matter who I talk to and read there body language I ask questions with specific intent to find out large amounts of psych positioning and value elicitation but I can never make the transition from psych to physical anyone will talk to me or be my friend but I suck at kino (was NEVER touched when i was a child in any way) its just unatural for me to randomly touch somone cause its not something I accept myself without thinking about it first (like hey its ok to let them touch me) a few years ago I would do arm locks or just catch there hand before they could touch me even if it was just a shoulder clap or something. Most ppl are very intimidated by my looks and my intelligence and I cant figure out how not to be intimidating this is a large thing with me I mean I need to start using smaller words or something... I duno.
point being I must be way below average I get approached regularly by women just on looks alone yet i always push them away like **** off ***** what do i look like.... but then my first GF slept with 7 or 8 guys while I was WAY ONEITIS 3 of them being very good friends of mine..... then told me she was pregnant with my kid .. when she wasnt ... I think this could be why I have a huge block with women the second one shows intrest I'm like get away slut! errr duno if thers any help for me... I'm just lost like the WBAFC I am