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How many months since you had sex?
I'm going on 3 months I think and I miss it. :/
I'm going on 3 months I think and I miss it. :/
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
be honest...how long has it been?
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- Start date
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Harry Wilmington
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It's been a whopping 2 days. Damn girlfriend and her period, lol...
TheMonkeyKing
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10days. 9days since wet fingers.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
JohnChops
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A week, I ignored my GF when she asks lulz
TheMonkeyKing
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See this one becoming a 'sticky' ....
Bingo-Player
Master Don Juan
i went 6 months from january and then nailed 2 in the same day went quiet for another month and then got some again last night
this is without really chasing any tail and i didn't have to date any of them
* or spending any of my hard earned money
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this is without really chasing any tail and i didn't have to date any of them
* or spending any of my hard earned money
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AttackFormation
Master Don Juan
3 and a half years or a couple of months depending on if we're counting making out or not.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
No.Danny
Master Don Juan
9 months no action. 1 month no kissing.... Main plate in cuba for a month. ......fvck!!!
No.Danny
Master Don Juan
Ha this guy!burgereater said:
Let's play a game of. Guess the virgin!
Obviously not this guy. Trolling a forum of getting women!
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
_sideways_
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You guys are some pimps.....honestly, its good to hear because I just gotta get on the ball.
been too busy worrying about bills and work and not enjoying these freaks.
been too busy worrying about bills and work and not enjoying these freaks.
BraddH
Master Don Juan
2 days
MOTU
Master Don Juan
I started dating again back in January, and I haven't had a dry spell of more than 3 weeks since then. 6 different chicks so far this year. But don't ask me to post their pics lol. But it was good for me to get back in the saddle with some easier chicks and then work my way up.
The one I have now is pretty fckn hot if I do say so myself. Fvcked her 2x and she blew me once between Saturday around 6pm and Sunday around 10am. D@mn it feels good to be a gangsta.
The one I have now is pretty fckn hot if I do say so myself. Fvcked her 2x and she blew me once between Saturday around 6pm and Sunday around 10am. D@mn it feels good to be a gangsta.
Kailex
Master Don Juan
2 hours. Whoa, it's really been that long!?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.