Be clear with your intentions

[Robert28]

You can make your intentions clear until you’re blue in the face but it doesn’t matter.

 

[Robert28]

He definitely is. Most guys are under the impression they land there by not making a move. This is a prime example of how that's not entirely true. You're just as likely to land there by being too aggressive, which is the case here.

You should absolutely meet up, but DON'T make a move on her. She's expecting you to do that. Instead, be a fun, cool guy. Don't hint at the fact you want to bang her, don't bring up your previous conversations, etc. You treat her like she's in your friendzone.

Fvck all that waste of time. Instead of messing around with this woman that likes to friendzone, he could be out with someone who doesn’t want to friendzone him. Her ***** ain’t made of gold.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Fvck all that waste of time. Instead of messing around with this woman that likes to friendzone, he could be out with someone who doesn’t want to friendzone him. Her ***** ain’t made of gold.

That was the lesson.

 

[Robert28]

That was the lesson.

I went from making this mistake thinking I could change their mind to having them cuss me out because I didn’t want to be friends. I don’t even try to be nice about it anymore, I just say “I would get nothing out of being your friend.”

 

[SargeMaximus]

I went from making this mistake thinking I could change their mind to having them cuss me out because I didn’t want to be friends. I don’t even try to be nice about it anymore, I just say “I would get nothing out of being your friend.”

I like to say “I already have friends” it frames it as if they don’t.

 

[Robert28]

I like to say “I already have friends” it frames it as if they don’t.

I want them to know that even if I didn’t have friends, I wouldn’t want to be theirs. Women think their friendship is so valuable, but it’s not. I have zero use for their friendship.

 

[2Rocky]