Be carefull with c&f and DD material. I lost a good one cause of it.

[gimmeyofonenumba]

I met this chick, when she was on vacation in my home town, turns out she actually lives in the same city I was moving to in a week. We met up for dinner and everything was fvcking gravy. Convo was awesome, lots of kino, so much stuff in common, she's hot, and just a cool chick. Throughout the nite, I was doing a little teasing on her, and i thought it was working she said something like "you keep teasing me,huh?" with a playfull smile, we went for a walk too, it was good. From the begining i thought she was a big AW, and maybe she still is, thats why i had the idea of not being such a nice guy.

Next day i called her, told her i wasnt doing anything, and she hinted at hanging out, but i was actually watching football with my buds. The next day,i called her, and she happened to be right in the same area, where i was taking my lunch break. But i had 0 time left on my break and had to head back, I told her We'd hang out in a few days.

Called her up, nothing, Never heard from her again. Now im replaying alot of the things she had said to me, and I was stupid for just not understanding that she generally liked me, regardless of any fvckin p/up material. She saw my apt, and even mentioned how she wanted to give me a few things like lights or whatever. There was enough in common, enough in rapport to just not have to rely on any material. Just a word of caution, sometimes I think you just need to completely disregard this p/up material. Question for you guys though. She did say she generally falls for "nice guys" what does that translate to?

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

...Now im replaying alot of the things she had said to me, and I was stupid for just not understanding that she generally liked me, regardless of any fvckin p/up material.

Examples? Was it the p/up material or was it the way that it was delivered?

...She did say she generally falls for "nice guys" what does that translate to?

RUN FOR 'DA HILLS!!!!

Actually, she is "accustomed" to guys that do the stereotypical (supplicant) "nice guy" type things (why date the guy when the dinners are free?). She probably saw you as someone different and didn't know how to handle you. Is that a bad thing? No, but is she capable of adjusting her premise of how a guy should act?

 

[Snow Plowman]

OVERGAMING

There is a time and place for C&F and stuff like that. You were already passed all of that, you basically went backwards. Next time if your already having a good time instead of C&F start escalating.

Did you even kiss this girl?

 

[gimmeyofonenumba]

I dont think it was the way it was delieverd. I think it was the fact that it was something she probably isnt used too, plus the fact that i had priorites in my schedule over her. In response to the other question, no I didnt kiss her. I could've and probably should've but I dont think that would make much of a difference, being that she continously wanted to see me the following days.

 

[Sandow]

Sometimes, we may never know why girls act they way do. Just accept it and move on. Hell, they don't even know why they make such illogical decisions, so don't fret on it, and look forward. That next girl could be right down the block.

This was said before, but it's important that you don't overgame. Sometimes we have a tendency to go overboard with this material. It's important to understand the principles and ideas behind it, but use it wisely and accordingly.

 

[MooseGod]

Are you guys on dope? The reason is the OP shot himself in the foot. Sounds like this was a chick not trying to play any "games" (yes, they do exist, but they're rare) and you came off as "fake" because of everything you did that there is an acronym for. I mean, some of that stuff is good for the pickup, but after you're in you'll just come off as fake. Be yourself, and if you're interested, and she's interested, then for Christssake show her some interest. 'Nuff said.

 

[moto]

Are you guys on dope? The reason is the OP shot himself in the foot. Sounds like this was a chick not trying to play any "games" (yes, they do exist, but they're rare) and you came off as "fake" because of everything you did that there is an acronym for. I mean, some of that stuff is good for the pickup, but after you're in you'll just come off as fake. Be yourself, and if you're interested, and she's interested, then for Christssake show her some interest. 'Nuff said.

exactly...dont over game.

 

[Cash37]

If you read Mystery Method you would know that once your in C1 you dont need C&F anymore.

 

[The Inside Man]

Don't listen to that c1 a3 bull****, it's not always that linear. A good model, but it is just a model. Everyone has done this at some point or another, if they have tried to incorporate CF. I've lost more than a couple girls by coming off too strong. That is how you find your balance though. Take it as a learning experience because it is! You're growing.