"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Be careful with texting and speaking with women

BadBoy89

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I believe texting should only be used to determine logistics. Where to meet, what time, etc. Why? Because anything a man puts in writing is for the record. A man should not put emotions, love stories, sex stories, or anything else that would cause him issues down the road, Women are very smart in texting, they rarely incriminate themselves while getting information from the man. But men often say what they want in writing without paying much attention and it comes back to bite them. So men, be careful with texting. I always assume when texting, even texting my girlfriend or a plate, that she is in bed with another guy showing him what I am writing her. As they say ”the pen is mightier than the sword.”

A man should also be careful with his words. He should always pretend he is being recorded at all times. Do not say whatever you want, whenever. Be polite, be educated, be focused, and use your words wisely. As they say “loose lips sink ships.”

The one thing a man can relax a bit on is his actions. Actions are open to alot of interpretation; he said, she said, meant to do one thing but did another, etc. A man can almost do whatever he wants in terms of his actions.

Remember men, text and words are easy to prove. Actions are hard to prove.

Be strong. :up:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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CAPSLOCK BANDIT

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Unfortunately with so many cameras life is like a text message in itself.
 

EyeBRollin

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I agree 100% with the OP. Texting should serve a purpose. Texting is not for conversations. Use it to send an address, data, or other information. I let all women know up front I don’t text. If they want to chit chat I’ll see them on the date. The most thirsty women resort to calling me on the phone, which is still 100 times better than texting.
 
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