"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Be careful with texting and speaking with women

BadBoy89

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I believe texting should only be used to determine logistics. Where to meet, what time, etc. Why? Because anything a man puts in writing is for the record. A man should not put emotions, love stories, sex stories, or anything else that would cause him issues down the road, Women are very smart in texting, they rarely incriminate themselves while getting information from the man. But men often say what they want in writing without paying much attention and it comes back to bite them. So men, be careful with texting. I always assume when texting, even texting my girlfriend or a plate, that she is in bed with another guy showing him what I am writing her. As they say ”the pen is mightier than the sword.”

A man should also be careful with his words. He should always pretend he is being recorded at all times. Do not say whatever you want, whenever. Be polite, be educated, be focused, and use your words wisely. As they say “loose lips sink ships.”

The one thing a man can relax a bit on is his actions. Actions are open to alot of interpretation; he said, she said, meant to do one thing but did another, etc. A man can almost do whatever he wants in terms of his actions.

Remember men, text and words are easy to prove. Actions are hard to prove.

Be strong. :up:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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CAPSLOCK BANDIT

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Unfortunately with so many cameras life is like a text message in itself.
 

EyeBRollin

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I agree 100% with the OP. Texting should serve a purpose. Texting is not for conversations. Use it to send an address, data, or other information. I let all women know up front I don’t text. If they want to chit chat I’ll see them on the date. The most thirsty women resort to calling me on the phone, which is still 100 times better than texting.
 
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