I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Again more with the racial debat that needs to end. I don't care what ethnicity you are, if you have a vagina, what works on a white girl will work on an asian, a latin, a black. Girls are girls.Trapper said:being jerk does not work on asian girls... im talking about real asian girls not westernized ones..coz they do like gentleman and kind types..simply you gotta be nice to them..anybody has experienced in this field?
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Those asian chicks want a relationship with western guys so they can get out of their "third-world" countries.Trapper said:being jerk does not work on asian girls... im talking about real asian girls not westernized ones..coz they do like gentleman and kind types..simply you gotta be nice to them..anybody has experienced in this field?
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Hong KongNox said:Those asian chicks want a relationship with western guys so they can get out of their "third-world" countries.
Current gf is azn, she's orignally from Japan and has only been here in the US for about 8 years. Has heavy Japanese accent, still have to help her out with English, so this is a real azn woman lmao @ real cuz my gf says the same thing... she calls westernized azn girls just plain o'l 'american'...being jerk does not work on asian girls... im talking about real asian girls not westernized ones..coz they do like gentleman and kind types..simply you gotta be nice to them..anybody has experienced in this field?
Through my experiences, this sh!t is dead on. You just gotta slow it down a bit with ASIAN girls and americanized asian girls.PheonixUK said:My skills are still pretty weak so take my advise with caution
There are only a few differences between Western and Asian Asian girls.
- early sexual verbal flirting and early kino scares some Asians
- They are more obedient to their parents, to get through this try challenging her to define herself as a adult person and not her parent's daughter, also tell her that her parents want the best for her but since the advent of reliable contraception it isn't appropiate for today.
"Only" 8 years? That's actually a lot of Americanizing, dude.Cod3r said:Current gf is azn, she's orignally from Japan and has only been here in the US for about 8 years.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.