You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Again more with the racial debat that needs to end. I don't care what ethnicity you are, if you have a vagina, what works on a white girl will work on an asian, a latin, a black. Girls are girls.Trapper said:being jerk does not work on asian girls... im talking about real asian girls not westernized ones..coz they do like gentleman and kind types..simply you gotta be nice to them..anybody has experienced in this field?
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Those asian chicks want a relationship with western guys so they can get out of their "third-world" countries.Trapper said:being jerk does not work on asian girls... im talking about real asian girls not westernized ones..coz they do like gentleman and kind types..simply you gotta be nice to them..anybody has experienced in this field?
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Hong KongNox said:Those asian chicks want a relationship with western guys so they can get out of their "third-world" countries.
Current gf is azn, she's orignally from Japan and has only been here in the US for about 8 years. Has heavy Japanese accent, still have to help her out with English, so this is a real azn woman lmao @ real cuz my gf says the same thing... she calls westernized azn girls just plain o'l 'american'...being jerk does not work on asian girls... im talking about real asian girls not westernized ones..coz they do like gentleman and kind types..simply you gotta be nice to them..anybody has experienced in this field?
Through my experiences, this sh!t is dead on. You just gotta slow it down a bit with ASIAN girls and americanized asian girls.PheonixUK said:My skills are still pretty weak so take my advise with caution
There are only a few differences between Western and Asian Asian girls.
- early sexual verbal flirting and early kino scares some Asians
- They are more obedient to their parents, to get through this try challenging her to define herself as a adult person and not her parent's daughter, also tell her that her parents want the best for her but since the advent of reliable contraception it isn't appropiate for today.
"Only" 8 years? That's actually a lot of Americanizing, dude.Cod3r said:Current gf is azn, she's orignally from Japan and has only been here in the US for about 8 years.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.