"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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what's all this religious talk? Male is Male, Man is Man. Granted, I believe Christ to be the ultamite man as well (being christian) but a DJ can be a man without being religious too... it ain't a requirement...the two aren't even related. Religion is separate from masculinity, although I will say that standing for something ( ie religion ) is a very masculine thing to do.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I agree...being a man has nothing to do with religion...self respect, confidence and ambition are the issue, not what lies in the afterlife. I liked Pooks post and what he says seems to be logical. I'm hyped up about this course and wish everyone luck!
 

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Pook really knows his shyt, but then again, so do I.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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yeah brother, you hit it right on the nail head. damn good post.

fvck okra winfree and rickee lake, fat pigs! all they do is bash men.
 

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This definitely has to go down in writing as one of the greatest works of all time

I think I just realized how wimpy I am myself!

~R~
 

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And I thought our high school stuff was good... reading this decimated the entire Hs Forum.....

PooK, you are completely brilliant. we simply must get in touch.

email: [email protected]
AIM: HangTeN3000

this was beautiful. A true masterpiece.

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Burn Baby Burn
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WTF HOW DO U COME UP WITH THIS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

-=**BUMP**=-
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Wow...Read it b4..but had to read it again.

-BUMP-

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Never foget your ABCs': Always Be Closing.
 

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It's posts such as this that made me join this forum in the 1st place.
Pook you're on point, a gentleman and a scholar and your bloods worth bottling
 

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Legendary ..

Congrats


"Nice Guys think, "Does she like me? How do I get her to like me?" Good guys think, "Should I like her? Should I go for her?""
 

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Bumpin it for the new year!!!
 

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Hey Pook, have you ever heard of the inventor Nikola Tesla?

[For everyone who hasn't heard of him, which should be all of you, he invented the Modern Age. Your whole life is thanks to Nikola. Practically no one knows about him because Thomas Edison went on a crusade to destroy his life, and did.]

I've read his biography, I'm reading his autobiography, and this has been said of his life; "'Spectatular' is a mild word for describing the strange experiment with life that comprises the story of Nikola Tesla, and 'amazing' fails to do adequate justice to the results that burst from his experiences like an exploding rocket. It is the story of the dazzling scintillation of a superman who created a new world; it is a story that condemns woman as an anchor of the flesh which retards the development of man and limits his accomplishment -- and, paradoxically, proves that even the most successful life, if it does not include a woman, is a dismal failure."

[He started a chump in life, and became the 'Ultimate DJ', which is why I bump this thread]
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Great man... you are realy great... thanks for saving our race... can't wait for other GREAT stuff you give to us...
 

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my two cents

Pook
this is most likely the most helpful post i have seen ever.

unfortunately, ive heard alot of criticism on it, mostly from people who think its about being "macho" or living up to a standard. i would like to say that it is not about living up to a standard. it is SELF IMPROVEMENT. THe tips Pook gives are not to make you macho. everyone is capable of being confident. everyone can build their character. what is so wrong with improving yourself? so your introverted (listen up bashful). whats so wrong with crushing your fears, meeting more people, having more fun in life?

My opinion of a MAN is someone who is ALWAYS IMPROVING THEMSELVES.

Peoples enviornments may have made them the way they were (shy, overlynice.) but honestly, it doesnt mean you have to accept the negative things about yourselves.

you dont have to go "boo hoo, im shy, im always gonna be shy, and im soooo offended when someone tells me to improve myself, focus on my dreams, or make something of myself...."

now, pook has his opinions of what a man is. you cant necessarily say that wutever pook puts on a post is absolute truth.... but the bigest lie is going through life accepting things you don't have to because they are "you."

who the hell came up with this idea?

obviously, if you were born ugly, you cant change that (unless you have money)

but if youy out of shape, if you dont go for your dreams, if your shy (social paranoia is a disease i think), if your desperate, do you think thats all unchangable? its the "real you" right?
i think not. if you have full CONTROL of yourself, you make yourself.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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