1 minute in while writing this, seems like she is going on an illustrative rant about being a pathological people pleaser and externalizing it outward. Yeah, if you for some reason base your life around slaving to other peoples' whims about you including media, advertisement, people you hardly know and people who themselves are toxic and either want to hurt you or don't give a shyt about you, you'll have an insecure and compromised life. What a newsflash. You'll have to think things through for yourself and decide what you will and won't do regardless of how many advertisements, medias, acquaintances and strangers, and harmful people tell you otherwise.