"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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It just seems a kind of complaint women do to blame men. Mostly the unloved/unfckable women.

And what scares is reading comments on instagram, youtube about this video.

They should do a video of all the things women complain about men! hahaha
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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1 minute in while writing this, seems like she is going on an illustrative rant about being a pathological people pleaser and externalizing it outward. Yeah, if you for some reason base your life around slaving to other peoples' whims about you including media, advertisement, people you hardly know and people who themselves are toxic and either want to hurt you or don't give a shyt about you, you'll have an insecure and compromised life. What a newsflash. You'll have to think things through for yourself and decide what you will and won't do regardless of how many advertisements, medias, acquaintances and strangers, and harmful people tell you otherwise.
 
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The women im seeing showed it took me after 30 sec i asked her is there a moral or conclusion in end, she said no so i stop watching.

I think there are some truth in there, but i hate how its framed.


Funny thing i see in this video is rhe irony that now a day its women telling themselve this.
Its women and feminist using media telling other women how to be strong etc.....

But its men fault obv......
 

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1 minute in while writing this, seems like she is going on an illustrative rant about being a pathological people pleaser and externalizing it outward. Yeah, if you for some reason base your life around slaving to other peoples' whims about you including media, advertisement, people you hardly know and people who themselves are toxic and either want to hurt you or don't give a shyt about you, you'll have an insecure and compromised life. What a newsflash. You'll have to think things through for yourself and decide what you will and won't do regardless of how many advertisements, medias, acquaintances and strangers, and harmful people tell you otherwise.
That's true!
 

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The women im seeing showed it took me after 30 sec i asked her is there a moral or conclusion in end, she said no so i stop watching.

I think there are some truth in there, but i hate how its framed.


Funny thing i see in this video is rhe irony that now a day its women telling themselve this.
Its women and feminist using media telling other women how to be strong etc.....

But its men fault obv......
Yep.

It seems pure emotional rage. If someone is not able to take responsibility by their actions, it's easier to put someone else.

If any of those women had guy's that treat them badly... They were also responsible for allowing that. But generalize and blame all the men in the Universe is a better solution! :p
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Must be confusing with all these messages.
I'll make it easier.

Stay fit, cook, clean, don't use s3x as a weapon, limit social media, don't sleep around and appreciate traditional masculinity.
Then you will be treated like a lady.
 

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I love how everything she’s saying is stuff that only women tell other women lmao

Like, men hardly ever say any of that **** to them. It’s mostly women who say it to each other as a way of tearing each other down so that they feel better about themselves. And why do women do that? Cuz they’re honestly ****ing retarded hahahaha
 

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Must be confusing with all these messages.
I'll make it easier.

Stay fit, cook, clean, don't use s3x as a weapon, limit social media, don't sleep around and appreciate traditional masculinity.
Then you will be treated like a lady.
Concur entirely. That’s how I’m raising my girls. And that’s how I conduct myself...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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