"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Be a goof

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Sup guys im just sitting at my computer and i was listining to that song HIT THE ROAD JACK by Stevie Wonder..
Anyways i was singing stevies part out loud to myself making goofy faces and all that lol.. It felt pretty dam good and put a huge smile on my face
So i guess my point is try to be more care free and vulnurable when your out and about with your friends. Females see you having a good time BY YOURSELF and that you can be so care free it will draw them to you like a magnet!!
Anyways guys do yourself a favor and download this song!! Make sure its the one by stevie wonder because singing his part is a blast!
WHAT YOU SAY!!!!!!!!!!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I just learnt the lyrics by heart guys.. Really easy to learn in my opinion its only 2 verses..
Next time we go out to sing at karaokee my plan is to pick this song and have two females share a mike and do the girl part of the song. Then i get the other mike and do the guys part! Should be awsome and fun experience lol. I urge you guys to give this song a listen it really peps you up.
 

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This sounds like a good idea, but if you are still an AFC at heart. I suggest you try Stevie's other 80's classic, "I just called to say I love you" instead ;)
 

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I could just find Hit the road Jack by ray charls... no stevie wonder. I searched youtube so if you could post a link it would be appreciated.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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My bad bro it is Ray Charles .. I got mixed up.. How you like the song
 

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GOOD ADVICE:up:

I swear, I see so many guys out there TRYING to act sooo cool...When its to that point where a guy is obviously trying too hard to be smooth sh!t is when I label that guy a douchebag.
 

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I agree bro usally trying to act cool is insecurity in disguise. Afraid to say something or be indifferent at the fear of looking uncool..
But if you really think about it, Courage and confidence is what it takes to step into the fire. And thats what a good women likes is a guy who isnt afraid to be outragous and let it infect others.
 

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Being a goof works for a lot of people, but not everyone has the ability to look natural doing it, no matter how much fun they might be having.
 

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I think you should try singing songs by Leonard Cohen if you really want to attract them like bees to honey.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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persistent exaction said:
I think you should try singing songs by Leonard Cohen if you really want to attract them like bees to honey.
Hey bro who is this guy.. I just checked out a bunch of his songs and zero of them sound familiar.. Maybe not my style or something but how would this music drive the chicks crazy?? Is there a certain song you had in mind?
 

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Sorry bro i tryed i really did but that music would crash my party,.. Make everyone sad and sleepy lol.. Thanks for the info but im more into happy fun feel good music
 
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