"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Be a goof

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Sup guys im just sitting at my computer and i was listining to that song HIT THE ROAD JACK by Stevie Wonder..
Anyways i was singing stevies part out loud to myself making goofy faces and all that lol.. It felt pretty dam good and put a huge smile on my face
So i guess my point is try to be more care free and vulnurable when your out and about with your friends. Females see you having a good time BY YOURSELF and that you can be so care free it will draw them to you like a magnet!!
Anyways guys do yourself a favor and download this song!! Make sure its the one by stevie wonder because singing his part is a blast!
WHAT YOU SAY!!!!!!!!!!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I just learnt the lyrics by heart guys.. Really easy to learn in my opinion its only 2 verses..
Next time we go out to sing at karaokee my plan is to pick this song and have two females share a mike and do the girl part of the song. Then i get the other mike and do the guys part! Should be awsome and fun experience lol. I urge you guys to give this song a listen it really peps you up.
 

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This sounds like a good idea, but if you are still an AFC at heart. I suggest you try Stevie's other 80's classic, "I just called to say I love you" instead ;)
 

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I could just find Hit the road Jack by ray charls... no stevie wonder. I searched youtube so if you could post a link it would be appreciated.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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My bad bro it is Ray Charles .. I got mixed up.. How you like the song
 

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GOOD ADVICE:up:

I swear, I see so many guys out there TRYING to act sooo cool...When its to that point where a guy is obviously trying too hard to be smooth sh!t is when I label that guy a douchebag.
 

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I agree bro usally trying to act cool is insecurity in disguise. Afraid to say something or be indifferent at the fear of looking uncool..
But if you really think about it, Courage and confidence is what it takes to step into the fire. And thats what a good women likes is a guy who isnt afraid to be outragous and let it infect others.
 

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Being a goof works for a lot of people, but not everyone has the ability to look natural doing it, no matter how much fun they might be having.
 

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I think you should try singing songs by Leonard Cohen if you really want to attract them like bees to honey.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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persistent exaction said:
I think you should try singing songs by Leonard Cohen if you really want to attract them like bees to honey.
Hey bro who is this guy.. I just checked out a bunch of his songs and zero of them sound familiar.. Maybe not my style or something but how would this music drive the chicks crazy?? Is there a certain song you had in mind?
 

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Sorry bro i tryed i really did but that music would crash my party,.. Make everyone sad and sleepy lol.. Thanks for the info but im more into happy fun feel good music
 
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