"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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BDJ's Bet

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I made a bet with my friend - Who will have the more defined 6-pack by August 31st.

I will be on a strict Keto Diet.
I hate cardio, but plan to play basketball 3-4 times a week.
I have a gym where I work, but most of my workouts have to be free weights.

Getting ripped is the plan, here is where I am at. Any links/tips/workouts/routines appreciated.

$300 on the line.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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TIL my lower body is made of glass.

Squats
115 x 10
115 x 10
115 x 8

Felt a sharp pain in my groin as I slowly and manfully backed up the bar to the rack (there was a cute chick there.) I left the weight room and went to locker room calmly. Imagine walking while a piece of turd is creeping out of your ass. No one was here as I sat and whimpered.

Bench Press
115 x 10
135 x 10
135 x 8
115 x 10
115 x 8

Upright Row
85 x 10
85 x 8
75 x 10
75 x 8
75 x 8

Dips
170 x 8
170 x 6
170 x 5

Everything is in lbs.

DanZy said:
Try intermittent fasting and cycle your calories
I only know PUA lingo...
 

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Good luck with your goals, Best bet in getting a "defined" 6-pack is reducing your body fat...

As for your groin giving you pain during squats, I usually hear that from Raw lifters who squat too wide. Don't know if this is your case?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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BeginningDJ said:
Felt a sharp pain in my groin as I slowly and manfully backed up the bar to the rack (there was a cute chick there.) I left the weight room and went to locker room calmly. Imagine walking while a piece of turd is creeping out of your ass. No one was here as I sat and whimpered.


I only know PUA lingo...
You need to do warmup sets buddy, especially as Im guessing youre quite new to this.

Do a couple sets with lighter weights first to warm up the muscles, otherwise you'll end up getting more pains than just a little tweak in the groin.

And danzy was saying:

intermittent fasting - when youre on a cut as you clearly are going to have to do for those abzzz you can eat normally if you take a day of fasting every couple of days. It give the body a chance to eat at your bodyfat, while allowing you to not have a strict diet.

cycle the calories is a little more complicated.
lift day - protein and carbs, no fat/ fatty foods
rest day - less carbs, a little fatty food is ok (not much though, not if you want those abz showing in 2 months)

for getting the abs on display its 30% training, 70% diet though.


lots to think about, but youre in good hands :)
 
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Thanks for the pointers everyone.

I need to ween off stuffing my face with sh!tty food.

Dinner Yesterday - Taco Bell's Grilled Stuff Burrito (No beans, gotta watch the carbs)

Lunch Today - Lettuce wrapped double cheeseburger

Lifting the barbell as you're bent over
75 x 10
75 x 10
85 x 10
85 x 10
75 x 10

Barbell Bicep Curls
75 x 10
75 x 10
75 x 8
75 x 8
75 x 10

Shoulder Shrugs
75 x 10
95 x 10
95 x 10
95 x 10
95 x 10

Reverse butterfly as you straddle the bench laying down
12.5 x 10
15 x 10
15 x 8
15 x 8
15 x 8

Weights are in lbs.
 

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BeginningDJ said:
Thanks for the pointers everyone.

I need to ween off stuffing my face with sh!tty food.

Dinner Yesterday - Taco Bell's Grilled Stuff Burrito (No beans, gotta watch the carbs)

Lunch Today - Lettuce wrapped double cheeseburger

Lifting the barbell as you're bent overbent over row
75 x 10
75 x 10
85 x 10
85 x 10
75 x 10

Barbell Bicep Curls
75 x 10
75 x 10
75 x 8
75 x 8
75 x 10

Shoulder Shrugs
75 x 10
95 x 10
95 x 10
95 x 10
95 x 10

Reverse butterfly as you straddle the bench laying down
12.5 x 10reverse fly / deltoid fly
15 x 10
15 x 8
15 x 8
15 x 8

Weights are in lbs.
Sorry, just being pic ky there :D
Good work, nice to see you concentrate on muscle groups.

Try to leave 48 hours before hitting the same group of muscles again or they won't recover and grow properly.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Started SL 5x5

June 26

Squats - 125 lbs
Bench - 145 lbs
Barbell Row - 125 lbs
OH Press - 95 lbs
Deadlift (pulling bar up to chin) - 95 lbs

July 12

Squats - 175 lbs
Bench - 165 lbs
Barbell Row - 145 lbs
OH Press - 115 lbs
Deadlift - 120 lbs

Dinner last night - 40 pc McNuggets and large fries
Abs - Invisible
 

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lift High reps(20-30) + low weight and throw in 2 or 3 one hour sessions cardio a week.

Abz = 70% diet BDJ - grapefruit juice and oatmeal for breakfast and cut a lot of carbs out.
 

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BeginningDJ said:
June 26

Squats - 125 lbs
Bench - 145 lbs
Barbell Row - 125 lbs
OH Press - 95 lbs
Deadlift (pulling bar up to chin) - 95 lbs

July 12

Squats - 175 lbs
Bench - 165 lbs
Barbell Row - 145 lbs
OH Press - 115 lbs
Deadlift - 120 lbs

Dinner last night - 40 pc McNuggets and large fries
Abs - Invisible
High pulls?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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could also mean cleans.
 
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A little over a month left. I need to start working exclusively on my ab from now on. Here is my plan:

Mon: 5x5
Tues: Ab Ripper
Wed: 5x5
Thur: Ab Ripper
Fri: 5x5
Sat: Ab Ripper

Feeling incredibly full from the Chinese lunch buffet. Call it my last hoo-rah.

The bitterness of poor diet remains long after you poop.
 

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Remember this is all diet now too. Plus you'll want to dehydrate before the viewing. Let the skin shrink and stick to the muscles.
 
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