“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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BDJ's Bet

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I made a bet with my friend - Who will have the more defined 6-pack by August 31st.

I will be on a strict Keto Diet.
I hate cardio, but plan to play basketball 3-4 times a week.
I have a gym where I work, but most of my workouts have to be free weights.

Getting ripped is the plan, here is where I am at. Any links/tips/workouts/routines appreciated.

$300 on the line.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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TIL my lower body is made of glass.

Squats
115 x 10
115 x 10
115 x 8

Felt a sharp pain in my groin as I slowly and manfully backed up the bar to the rack (there was a cute chick there.) I left the weight room and went to locker room calmly. Imagine walking while a piece of turd is creeping out of your ass. No one was here as I sat and whimpered.

Bench Press
115 x 10
135 x 10
135 x 8
115 x 10
115 x 8

Upright Row
85 x 10
85 x 8
75 x 10
75 x 8
75 x 8

Dips
170 x 8
170 x 6
170 x 5

Everything is in lbs.

DanZy said:
Try intermittent fasting and cycle your calories
I only know PUA lingo...
 

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Good luck with your goals, Best bet in getting a "defined" 6-pack is reducing your body fat...

As for your groin giving you pain during squats, I usually hear that from Raw lifters who squat too wide. Don't know if this is your case?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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BeginningDJ said:
Felt a sharp pain in my groin as I slowly and manfully backed up the bar to the rack (there was a cute chick there.) I left the weight room and went to locker room calmly. Imagine walking while a piece of turd is creeping out of your ass. No one was here as I sat and whimpered.


I only know PUA lingo...
You need to do warmup sets buddy, especially as Im guessing youre quite new to this.

Do a couple sets with lighter weights first to warm up the muscles, otherwise you'll end up getting more pains than just a little tweak in the groin.

And danzy was saying:

intermittent fasting - when youre on a cut as you clearly are going to have to do for those abzzz you can eat normally if you take a day of fasting every couple of days. It give the body a chance to eat at your bodyfat, while allowing you to not have a strict diet.

cycle the calories is a little more complicated.
lift day - protein and carbs, no fat/ fatty foods
rest day - less carbs, a little fatty food is ok (not much though, not if you want those abz showing in 2 months)

for getting the abs on display its 30% training, 70% diet though.


lots to think about, but youre in good hands :)
 
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Thanks for the pointers everyone.

I need to ween off stuffing my face with sh!tty food.

Dinner Yesterday - Taco Bell's Grilled Stuff Burrito (No beans, gotta watch the carbs)

Lunch Today - Lettuce wrapped double cheeseburger

Lifting the barbell as you're bent over
75 x 10
75 x 10
85 x 10
85 x 10
75 x 10

Barbell Bicep Curls
75 x 10
75 x 10
75 x 8
75 x 8
75 x 10

Shoulder Shrugs
75 x 10
95 x 10
95 x 10
95 x 10
95 x 10

Reverse butterfly as you straddle the bench laying down
12.5 x 10
15 x 10
15 x 8
15 x 8
15 x 8

Weights are in lbs.
 

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BeginningDJ said:
Thanks for the pointers everyone.

I need to ween off stuffing my face with sh!tty food.

Dinner Yesterday - Taco Bell's Grilled Stuff Burrito (No beans, gotta watch the carbs)

Lunch Today - Lettuce wrapped double cheeseburger

Lifting the barbell as you're bent overbent over row
75 x 10
75 x 10
85 x 10
85 x 10
75 x 10

Barbell Bicep Curls
75 x 10
75 x 10
75 x 8
75 x 8
75 x 10

Shoulder Shrugs
75 x 10
95 x 10
95 x 10
95 x 10
95 x 10

Reverse butterfly as you straddle the bench laying down
12.5 x 10reverse fly / deltoid fly
15 x 10
15 x 8
15 x 8
15 x 8

Weights are in lbs.
Sorry, just being pic ky there :D
Good work, nice to see you concentrate on muscle groups.

Try to leave 48 hours before hitting the same group of muscles again or they won't recover and grow properly.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Started SL 5x5

June 26

Squats - 125 lbs
Bench - 145 lbs
Barbell Row - 125 lbs
OH Press - 95 lbs
Deadlift (pulling bar up to chin) - 95 lbs

July 12

Squats - 175 lbs
Bench - 165 lbs
Barbell Row - 145 lbs
OH Press - 115 lbs
Deadlift - 120 lbs

Dinner last night - 40 pc McNuggets and large fries
Abs - Invisible
 

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lift High reps(20-30) + low weight and throw in 2 or 3 one hour sessions cardio a week.

Abz = 70% diet BDJ - grapefruit juice and oatmeal for breakfast and cut a lot of carbs out.
 

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BeginningDJ said:
June 26

Squats - 125 lbs
Bench - 145 lbs
Barbell Row - 125 lbs
OH Press - 95 lbs
Deadlift (pulling bar up to chin) - 95 lbs

July 12

Squats - 175 lbs
Bench - 165 lbs
Barbell Row - 145 lbs
OH Press - 115 lbs
Deadlift - 120 lbs

Dinner last night - 40 pc McNuggets and large fries
Abs - Invisible
High pulls?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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could also mean cleans.
 
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A little over a month left. I need to start working exclusively on my ab from now on. Here is my plan:

Mon: 5x5
Tues: Ab Ripper
Wed: 5x5
Thur: Ab Ripper
Fri: 5x5
Sat: Ab Ripper

Feeling incredibly full from the Chinese lunch buffet. Call it my last hoo-rah.

The bitterness of poor diet remains long after you poop.
 

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Remember this is all diet now too. Plus you'll want to dehydrate before the viewing. Let the skin shrink and stick to the muscles.
 
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