"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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BCE - Week 1

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Here are the tasks:

a) are you organized?
- make your bed every morning after you wake up
- make use of that closet: don't leave your clothes all over the place!

b) on your looks (things that we miss doing or postpone for as long as we can)
- clean your shoes at least every two days. It's something many of us forget when it comes to dressing nicely and which really matters!
- get a fresh haircut if you got to the point where you have a bad hair day every day. It's a must as the first step into the DJBC

c) a confidence booster
- get some task that you've been postponing for some time now done. Don't choose something you have a deadline for (e.g. paying the bills or finishing some project for work)
e.g.: fix something in the house

Guess which 3 of those above are cumulative. :rolleyes:

You wouldn't waste more than 1 and a half hours a week doing a1, a2 and b1, but how many of us actually do them? You'll see that it's hard to stick to them if you haven't already done so...
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I am not sure if I would advise people to do these sidetasks at the same time. Well, but I guess, they are pretty obvious and easy until now so why not? As long as noone hasn't got enough time for BC there shouldn't be a problem. But please keep the assignments easy to medium as we progressive because the BC assignements become increasingly difficult and time taking.

I am not officially doing your extra assignements. However, I am done with this week, haha^^ I make my bed every morning and have a nice and tidy room (freshly painted and rearranged), both thanks to this site. I am pretty happy with my haircut and my shoes are clean, even though I do not clean them every two days.

A task I have been postponing for some time? Starting the BC... DONE!

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I am not sure if I would advise people to do these sidetasks at the same time.
:crackup: Their purpose is to eliminate bad habits and laziness. I don't know how they could harm one.

A task I have been postponing for some time? Starting the BC... DONE!
Choose another! Do you have everything else handled?
Good for you! :p
 
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