"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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BCE - Week 1

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Here are the tasks:

a) are you organized?
- make your bed every morning after you wake up
- make use of that closet: don't leave your clothes all over the place!

b) on your looks (things that we miss doing or postpone for as long as we can)
- clean your shoes at least every two days. It's something many of us forget when it comes to dressing nicely and which really matters!
- get a fresh haircut if you got to the point where you have a bad hair day every day. It's a must as the first step into the DJBC

c) a confidence booster
- get some task that you've been postponing for some time now done. Don't choose something you have a deadline for (e.g. paying the bills or finishing some project for work)
e.g.: fix something in the house

Guess which 3 of those above are cumulative. :rolleyes:

You wouldn't waste more than 1 and a half hours a week doing a1, a2 and b1, but how many of us actually do them? You'll see that it's hard to stick to them if you haven't already done so...
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I am not sure if I would advise people to do these sidetasks at the same time. Well, but I guess, they are pretty obvious and easy until now so why not? As long as noone hasn't got enough time for BC there shouldn't be a problem. But please keep the assignments easy to medium as we progressive because the BC assignements become increasingly difficult and time taking.

I am not officially doing your extra assignements. However, I am done with this week, haha^^ I make my bed every morning and have a nice and tidy room (freshly painted and rearranged), both thanks to this site. I am pretty happy with my haircut and my shoes are clean, even though I do not clean them every two days.

A task I have been postponing for some time? Starting the BC... DONE!

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I am not sure if I would advise people to do these sidetasks at the same time.
:crackup: Their purpose is to eliminate bad habits and laziness. I don't know how they could harm one.

A task I have been postponing for some time? Starting the BC... DONE!
Choose another! Do you have everything else handled?
Good for you! :p
 
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