Naughty Ninja
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Remember to internalize the knowledge that basing your self worth on a woman's ‘acceptance’ is insane. If a man doesn't have self-respect, everything else in his life is in vain. Don't forget it.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Basing your self worth on a woman's 'acceptance' is INSANE.
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
PapiChulo
Master Don Juan
Thats true. The only problem I see is falling into the trap set by women who largely base a man's worth on how well he is perceived to be by other females. In turn, most men judge you on the basis of not having women or a wife/kids by certain age....meaning you are not doing anything right to keep a woman.
ilikecharlene
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I think a true Alpha male sees women as a bonus. Confidence comes from within, not how many tits are felt up or pussies entered.
Eternal_water
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Though if you can't get a girl, your self worth drops
Eternal_water
Master Don Juan
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Though if you can't get a girl, your self worth drops
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
MikeOck
Don Juan
Most married men are not happy, so they try to make themselves feel better by thinking, "Well at least I'm not single!". Believe me, being in an unhappy relationship is far worse than being single!PapiChulo said: