Naughty Ninja
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Remember to internalize the knowledge that basing your self worth on a woman's ‘acceptance’ is insane. If a man doesn't have self-respect, everything else in his life is in vain. Don't forget it.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Basing your self worth on a woman's 'acceptance' is INSANE.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
PapiChulo
Master Don Juan
Thats true. The only problem I see is falling into the trap set by women who largely base a man's worth on how well he is perceived to be by other females. In turn, most men judge you on the basis of not having women or a wife/kids by certain age....meaning you are not doing anything right to keep a woman.
ilikecharlene
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I think a true Alpha male sees women as a bonus. Confidence comes from within, not how many tits are felt up or pussies entered.
Eternal_water
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Though if you can't get a girl, your self worth drops
Eternal_water
Master Don Juan
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Though if you can't get a girl, your self worth drops
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
MikeOck
Don Juan
Most married men are not happy, so they try to make themselves feel better by thinking, "Well at least I'm not single!". Believe me, being in an unhappy relationship is far worse than being single!PapiChulo said: