"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Basically I have two options tonight:

Brighty

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1. Go see Transformers with a few of my friends and then go home afterward, but ensures safety

2. Go with my friend to a crazy party with alcohol and with people I don't even know with the risk of getting caught/busted, but then again its 7/7/07. There will be a good balance of girls/guys there at the party, so hooking up with one isnt farfetched. Also, theres the problem that I don't have my car yet so if the party sucks i cant leave until my friends do. theres also the risk of not having somewhere to crash afterward.

i've never really been to one of these kind of wild parties with alcohol and that last late, is everyone usually pretty chill and cool and is it a relaxing enviorment where i could game a few chicks? or do you guys think its a bad idea and i should just play it safe and go see a movie with my other friends? Basicalyl ive been tired of sitting around on my ass and doing nothing this whole summer and wasting my life away and i want to get out and do something crazy to make my summer memorable, but is this going a little too far

quick replies please, I have about 25 minutes to make up my mind :eek:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Someone Much cooler

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stop bieng a ***** and go. Have fun, also if you concerned about your safety heres what you do, keep a padlock, the kind that goes on your locker @ school, if someone tried to stunt on you, get live, put that across their head and they will leave you alone quick.

If the boys in blue show up then try and be one of those people that blends into the background and don't make eye contact.

as 4 *****es, bring some rubbers, also maybe bring your own special drink so you can bait em wit it. brandy is good
 

Scought

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Go to the movie.

Then come home and masturbate to your transformer.
 

Distant Light

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You gotta take risks, and get out your comfort zone

Even if you died taking the risk, you still stepped out of your comfort zone. But either way whatever happens, happens. I highly doubt anything bad will happen, I remember the first club I went too, when I first went there was a fight and when I left there was a bigger fight. I felll and bumpped into maybe 30 people (I was a bit drunk) also fell on dudes who was making out with there gf. Not one of them ever tried to do anything.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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