Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Basically I have two options tonight:

Brighty

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1. Go see Transformers with a few of my friends and then go home afterward, but ensures safety

2. Go with my friend to a crazy party with alcohol and with people I don't even know with the risk of getting caught/busted, but then again its 7/7/07. There will be a good balance of girls/guys there at the party, so hooking up with one isnt farfetched. Also, theres the problem that I don't have my car yet so if the party sucks i cant leave until my friends do. theres also the risk of not having somewhere to crash afterward.

i've never really been to one of these kind of wild parties with alcohol and that last late, is everyone usually pretty chill and cool and is it a relaxing enviorment where i could game a few chicks? or do you guys think its a bad idea and i should just play it safe and go see a movie with my other friends? Basicalyl ive been tired of sitting around on my ass and doing nothing this whole summer and wasting my life away and i want to get out and do something crazy to make my summer memorable, but is this going a little too far

quick replies please, I have about 25 minutes to make up my mind :eek:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Someone Much cooler

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stop bieng a ***** and go. Have fun, also if you concerned about your safety heres what you do, keep a padlock, the kind that goes on your locker @ school, if someone tried to stunt on you, get live, put that across their head and they will leave you alone quick.

If the boys in blue show up then try and be one of those people that blends into the background and don't make eye contact.

as 4 *****es, bring some rubbers, also maybe bring your own special drink so you can bait em wit it. brandy is good
 

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Go to the movie.

Then come home and masturbate to your transformer.
 

Distant Light

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You gotta take risks, and get out your comfort zone

Even if you died taking the risk, you still stepped out of your comfort zone. But either way whatever happens, happens. I highly doubt anything bad will happen, I remember the first club I went too, when I first went there was a fight and when I left there was a bigger fight. I felll and bumpped into maybe 30 people (I was a bit drunk) also fell on dudes who was making out with there gf. Not one of them ever tried to do anything.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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