"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Basic Training

Quiksilver

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Hey

In a month or so, I'll be out of school and have 7 months(28 weeks) off before I go to university.

I'm currently looking for useful ways to spend that time and had a thought to spend 9 weeks taking the Army's Basic Training course.

Have any of you taken it, and what are your opinions on it?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I have several e-friends that done that, and several more in combat. It's a great thing. Go for it. Know that sacrifice in the name of your country is uncalled for right now. But get the training, it must be good as according to my e-friends.


Motivation + Great training you just can't give yourself by alone.
 

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Boot camp is generally too short to really get all that rudementary discipline down.
But go for it, it can only do you good, kiddo!
Good luck!
 

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I seem to recall that they let Tiger Woods do the basic training without enlisting, but Joe Average I"m not sure if they'd let do that. And even if they did they'd probably recruit you the wholetime.

It is a great thing to serve ones country though.
 

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Alright, well that 7 months is over now, and I'm on my way to university soon.

I've had a long long time to think about it.

When I'm done university in 4-6 years, my plan is to join the air force or navy for a couple of years. Completing college/university before joining means I can join as an officer.

My mind might change in the future, or the state of the world might change by then, but as of now I feel that would be an interesting experience to add to my life.

I've always been drawn towards it, i think i know why... Both my grandfathers were in the army in world war two. One was an artillery sargeant fighting in the phillipeans(sp?) and one was a b17 pilot, thankfully he never got to open the bomb hatch :). My great great great grandfather was an irish born austrian field marshal who commanded 18 000 soldiers against Napoleon.

i guess it's in my blood :)

Any soldiers here who have any tips?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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