"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Basic Training

Quiksilver

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Hey

In a month or so, I'll be out of school and have 7 months(28 weeks) off before I go to university.

I'm currently looking for useful ways to spend that time and had a thought to spend 9 weeks taking the Army's Basic Training course.

Have any of you taken it, and what are your opinions on it?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I have several e-friends that done that, and several more in combat. It's a great thing. Go for it. Know that sacrifice in the name of your country is uncalled for right now. But get the training, it must be good as according to my e-friends.


Motivation + Great training you just can't give yourself by alone.
 

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Boot camp is generally too short to really get all that rudementary discipline down.
But go for it, it can only do you good, kiddo!
Good luck!
 

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I seem to recall that they let Tiger Woods do the basic training without enlisting, but Joe Average I"m not sure if they'd let do that. And even if they did they'd probably recruit you the wholetime.

It is a great thing to serve ones country though.
 

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Alright, well that 7 months is over now, and I'm on my way to university soon.

I've had a long long time to think about it.

When I'm done university in 4-6 years, my plan is to join the air force or navy for a couple of years. Completing college/university before joining means I can join as an officer.

My mind might change in the future, or the state of the world might change by then, but as of now I feel that would be an interesting experience to add to my life.

I've always been drawn towards it, i think i know why... Both my grandfathers were in the army in world war two. One was an artillery sargeant fighting in the phillipeans(sp?) and one was a b17 pilot, thankfully he never got to open the bomb hatch :). My great great great grandfather was an irish born austrian field marshal who commanded 18 000 soldiers against Napoleon.

i guess it's in my blood :)

Any soldiers here who have any tips?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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