"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Basic Training

Quiksilver

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Hey

In a month or so, I'll be out of school and have 7 months(28 weeks) off before I go to university.

I'm currently looking for useful ways to spend that time and had a thought to spend 9 weeks taking the Army's Basic Training course.

Have any of you taken it, and what are your opinions on it?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I have several e-friends that done that, and several more in combat. It's a great thing. Go for it. Know that sacrifice in the name of your country is uncalled for right now. But get the training, it must be good as according to my e-friends.


Motivation + Great training you just can't give yourself by alone.
 

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Boot camp is generally too short to really get all that rudementary discipline down.
But go for it, it can only do you good, kiddo!
Good luck!
 

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I seem to recall that they let Tiger Woods do the basic training without enlisting, but Joe Average I"m not sure if they'd let do that. And even if they did they'd probably recruit you the wholetime.

It is a great thing to serve ones country though.
 

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Alright, well that 7 months is over now, and I'm on my way to university soon.

I've had a long long time to think about it.

When I'm done university in 4-6 years, my plan is to join the air force or navy for a couple of years. Completing college/university before joining means I can join as an officer.

My mind might change in the future, or the state of the world might change by then, but as of now I feel that would be an interesting experience to add to my life.

I've always been drawn towards it, i think i know why... Both my grandfathers were in the army in world war two. One was an artillery sargeant fighting in the phillipeans(sp?) and one was a b17 pilot, thankfully he never got to open the bomb hatch :). My great great great grandfather was an irish born austrian field marshal who commanded 18 000 soldiers against Napoleon.

i guess it's in my blood :)

Any soldiers here who have any tips?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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