"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Baseball terms like DJ terms

KnightRyder

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I was just thinking this off the top of my head about the baseball jargon and how very nicely it fits to the DJ field.

Pardon me if its already very known but I 'd like to clarify just how baseball terms are like DJ terms.

when you get up to bat ( approach )

If you hit the ball , (you've got a number )

a) If your thrown out or popup ( you've haven't gotten a first date)

b) Else if you've made a base hit ( your got an initial first date )

got another base repeat a&b( Your on second or third date or whatever)

Homerun ! (You've got in her pants!)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by MetalFortress
And a bad pitcher is an AFC

Always F**ks-up Curveballs
LOL. And a "foul" is when you screw up and do the most inappropriate things.... like trying to stroke her thigh in front of her parents.
 

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if you're in the field without a glove, theres a chance you'll catch something that could hurt long term.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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