"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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ssj245

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Well, guy I've never been much into sports or rather never been much into playing them but my friend has intrested me in Baseball, and I love playing it and its interesting to me. I am 19 years old and I am a complete novice, but Im spending time playing catch and just improving my reflex's with the glove and bat.

i was wondering that if they have baseball leagues that include novices of my age of 19. My friend who is a pitcher says that at my age everything is very competitive when it comes to joining a team and league.

But I thought that I could join any team after a while, just so I can be on a team and play for fun.

Do they have leagues like that in baseball?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Eternal

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Try Rec (recreational) leagues that are around your area. Although a lot of people have played longer, there is always an area that is willing to help people. Maybe even going to a camp could help you greatly.
 

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Also try starting at slow pitch softball. Usually those are just for fun and not very competetive. I reffed it at my college and let me tell you the range is from complete lack of sports skill to stars. So you will fit in.
 

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help

Can you guys help me find some rec leagues in Queens Nyc.

If you could help me find some sites I could contact and see whats up.

I couldnt find any.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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