"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Well, guy I've never been much into sports or rather never been much into playing them but my friend has intrested me in Baseball, and I love playing it and its interesting to me. I am 19 years old and I am a complete novice, but Im spending time playing catch and just improving my reflex's with the glove and bat.

i was wondering that if they have baseball leagues that include novices of my age of 19. My friend who is a pitcher says that at my age everything is very competitive when it comes to joining a team and league.

But I thought that I could join any team after a while, just so I can be on a team and play for fun.

Do they have leagues like that in baseball?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Try Rec (recreational) leagues that are around your area. Although a lot of people have played longer, there is always an area that is willing to help people. Maybe even going to a camp could help you greatly.
 
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Also try starting at slow pitch softball. Usually those are just for fun and not very competetive. I reffed it at my college and let me tell you the range is from complete lack of sports skill to stars. So you will fit in.
 
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help

Can you guys help me find some rec leagues in Queens Nyc.

If you could help me find some sites I could contact and see whats up.

I couldnt find any.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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