"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Bartering situation?

mrbojangs

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So this situation has happened to me twice so far and I'm not sure what the deal is with it.

I don't eat seafood yet two dates previously have tried to barter\force me to eat sea food. Is it a power thing on their end?

1st situation: Eat this oyster and I'll give you head. Needless to say I did eat it.
2nd situation: Eat this crab and I'll give you a massage. I declined.

So what's the deal with this? Am I simply looking into this too much?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Atom Smasher

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Wow, I find this interesting but I don't have an answer for you. I think we would need moe information about the particulars of each situation and whether or not the conversations were playful or not.

Try painting the picture a little more so we can give informed opinions.
 

mrbojangs

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Atom Smasher said:
Wow, I find this interesting but I don't have an answer for you. I think we would need moe information about the particulars of each situation and whether or not the conversations were playful or not.

Try painting the picture a little more so we can give informed opinions.
Not really sure how to paint a better picture but with both girls I was a total sucker. Both situations took place at nice expensive restaurants. They generally held all of the power.

A part of me thinks they were just testing how much control they can really have over me? As bad as that sounds...

They were dead serious as far as I could tell. I felt a wtf\upset\shocked vibe from the second girl when I said no. (haven't really said that to her before)...
 

JustLurk

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mrbojangs said:
Am I simply looking into this too much?
Yeah. It's just seafood, and she's probably just horny.
Take it as a joke and tease her about it.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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mrbojangs

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Atom Smasher said:
Wow, I find this interesting but I don't have an answer for you. I think we would need moe information about the particulars of each situation and whether or not the conversations were playful or not.

Try painting the picture a little more so we can give informed opinions.
Not really sure how to paint a better picture but with both girls I was a total sucker. Both situations took place at nice expensive restaurants. They generally held all of the power.

A part of me thinks they were just testing how much control they can really have over me? As bad as that sounds...

I find it odd I find myself in the exact same situation twice.
 

Chickfight

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Nah, I think it's cool, you get back more than you give don't you? And yes seafood IS delicious.
 

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Maybe the lesson to take away here is that we should all pretend to hate seafood.
 
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