"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Bartering situation?

mrbojangs

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So this situation has happened to me twice so far and I'm not sure what the deal is with it.

I don't eat seafood yet two dates previously have tried to barter\force me to eat sea food. Is it a power thing on their end?

1st situation: Eat this oyster and I'll give you head. Needless to say I did eat it.
2nd situation: Eat this crab and I'll give you a massage. I declined.

So what's the deal with this? Am I simply looking into this too much?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Atom Smasher

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Wow, I find this interesting but I don't have an answer for you. I think we would need moe information about the particulars of each situation and whether or not the conversations were playful or not.

Try painting the picture a little more so we can give informed opinions.
 

mrbojangs

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Atom Smasher said:
Wow, I find this interesting but I don't have an answer for you. I think we would need moe information about the particulars of each situation and whether or not the conversations were playful or not.

Try painting the picture a little more so we can give informed opinions.
Not really sure how to paint a better picture but with both girls I was a total sucker. Both situations took place at nice expensive restaurants. They generally held all of the power.

A part of me thinks they were just testing how much control they can really have over me? As bad as that sounds...

They were dead serious as far as I could tell. I felt a wtf\upset\shocked vibe from the second girl when I said no. (haven't really said that to her before)...
 

JustLurk

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mrbojangs said:
Am I simply looking into this too much?
Yeah. It's just seafood, and she's probably just horny.
Take it as a joke and tease her about it.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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mrbojangs

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Atom Smasher said:
Wow, I find this interesting but I don't have an answer for you. I think we would need moe information about the particulars of each situation and whether or not the conversations were playful or not.

Try painting the picture a little more so we can give informed opinions.
Not really sure how to paint a better picture but with both girls I was a total sucker. Both situations took place at nice expensive restaurants. They generally held all of the power.

A part of me thinks they were just testing how much control they can really have over me? As bad as that sounds...

I find it odd I find myself in the exact same situation twice.
 

Chickfight

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Nah, I think it's cool, you get back more than you give don't you? And yes seafood IS delicious.
 

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Maybe the lesson to take away here is that we should all pretend to hate seafood.
 
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