"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Broham

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I am getting extremely bored on weekends and I have always wanted to find a unique way to expand my social circles, and meet lots of hot women in a short period of time....

What do you guys think about doing some bartendering on Fri/Sat nights. I know those jobs are hard to come by, but they hire only the hottest chicks so what would I have to lose? Is it worth the effort. Guys with experience in this area, please chime in, but all opinions are welcome. What do you guys think?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Big Eee Zee

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a girl (who I currently am hung up on btw) got her bartenders liscence, I helped her study for it. From what I learned, they are a little tough to get, and several hundred dollars in classes. Only do it if you're serious.
 

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I (judging by the name) bartend. I've also managed to get quite a few girls from it. Customers and workers. Turnaround for employees is fast at these places so dont worry about $hitting where you eat as long as you dont pursue a manager.

Good luck
 

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Originally posted by Big Eee Zee
a girl (who I currently am hung up on btw) got her bartenders liscence, I helped her study for it. From what I learned, they are a little tough to get, and several hundred dollars in classes. Only do it if you're serious.
several hundred? try 235 bucks and the only reason they're hard is that they last about 2 weeks maybe an extra week depends on where you go but no longer than 3 weeks and you have to memorize a lot of drinks and pour perfect shots
 

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ya bartenders meet all the women they want that come to their bar, but its really funny to beat them at arm wrestling :)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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diablo

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Originally posted by Broham
I know those jobs are hard to come by, but they hire only the hottest chicks so what would I have to lose?
Well, unless you're one of the hottest chicks around, then you already have said you aren't getting hired. So, you have nothing to lose - except for your time, effort, and gas money. There are several threads out there to help you along your way to becoming a bartender, try doing a search.
 

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I'd recomend it, I worked as a bartender for a while, it was just a case of transport. The fact I had to walk three miles home at 3am didn't help me out.

I also had problems with clearing up, I think I had some psychosomatic joint issues. But as long as you can take the rough with the smooth, go for it.
 

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You should call a good bartending school. The classes only last for a few weeks and it'll only run you a few hundred dollars.

A good school will actually garuntee you a good job for as long as you're interested in tending. They'll actually job place you in whatever location you're willing to work at. Most bars are interested in a well trained tender who isn't going to screw around with the drink orders and registers and what not. Even if you decide to leave your place of residence, they'll place you where ever you go in the country (america only).

If you really REALLY want to make a ton of dough through bartending you should also invest in flare bartending. I know a few flare tenders who work just two weekends a month because they make like 4000K during those weekends. But it requires you to also find a place that is a flare bar. No bikers are gonna give you 20 dollar tips for trick serving a budwiser.

The advantages you get from being a bartender in terms of women should be self explanitory. I mean you're giving them drinks, being friendly and they're the ones paying you.
You can also date the waitresses if you want to but that can be dangerous if done incorrectly.
 
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