"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Bartendering

Broham

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I am getting extremely bored on weekends and I have always wanted to find a unique way to expand my social circles, and meet lots of hot women in a short period of time....

What do you guys think about doing some bartendering on Fri/Sat nights. I know those jobs are hard to come by, but they hire only the hottest chicks so what would I have to lose? Is it worth the effort. Guys with experience in this area, please chime in, but all opinions are welcome. What do you guys think?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Big Eee Zee

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a girl (who I currently am hung up on btw) got her bartenders liscence, I helped her study for it. From what I learned, they are a little tough to get, and several hundred dollars in classes. Only do it if you're serious.
 

The Bartender

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I (judging by the name) bartend. I've also managed to get quite a few girls from it. Customers and workers. Turnaround for employees is fast at these places so dont worry about $hitting where you eat as long as you dont pursue a manager.

Good luck
 

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Originally posted by Big Eee Zee
a girl (who I currently am hung up on btw) got her bartenders liscence, I helped her study for it. From what I learned, they are a little tough to get, and several hundred dollars in classes. Only do it if you're serious.
several hundred? try 235 bucks and the only reason they're hard is that they last about 2 weeks maybe an extra week depends on where you go but no longer than 3 weeks and you have to memorize a lot of drinks and pour perfect shots
 

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ya bartenders meet all the women they want that come to their bar, but its really funny to beat them at arm wrestling :)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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diablo

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Originally posted by Broham
I know those jobs are hard to come by, but they hire only the hottest chicks so what would I have to lose?
Well, unless you're one of the hottest chicks around, then you already have said you aren't getting hired. So, you have nothing to lose - except for your time, effort, and gas money. There are several threads out there to help you along your way to becoming a bartender, try doing a search.
 

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I'd recomend it, I worked as a bartender for a while, it was just a case of transport. The fact I had to walk three miles home at 3am didn't help me out.

I also had problems with clearing up, I think I had some psychosomatic joint issues. But as long as you can take the rough with the smooth, go for it.
 

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You should call a good bartending school. The classes only last for a few weeks and it'll only run you a few hundred dollars.

A good school will actually garuntee you a good job for as long as you're interested in tending. They'll actually job place you in whatever location you're willing to work at. Most bars are interested in a well trained tender who isn't going to screw around with the drink orders and registers and what not. Even if you decide to leave your place of residence, they'll place you where ever you go in the country (america only).

If you really REALLY want to make a ton of dough through bartending you should also invest in flare bartending. I know a few flare tenders who work just two weekends a month because they make like 4000K during those weekends. But it requires you to also find a place that is a flare bar. No bikers are gonna give you 20 dollar tips for trick serving a budwiser.

The advantages you get from being a bartender in terms of women should be self explanitory. I mean you're giving them drinks, being friendly and they're the ones paying you.
You can also date the waitresses if you want to but that can be dangerous if done incorrectly.
 
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