"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Bartender compliments my eyes

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As I write this I am in my favorite bar. A bartender who I have been acquainted with for a couple months said;

Bartender: you have very blue eyes.
Me: I know
Her: I like em
Me: thank you
Her: I wish I had blue eyes,
Me; you should be proud of what you have.
Her: my mom has Blue eyes.
She is hot. Do you think there is potential?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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IKO69

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Pretty soon she is gonna drop the hammer and tell you that is so interesting and to impress her by buying another beer
 

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Was that it?
Man......that was edgy as hell




I'm kidding! It sounded really funny to be honest.
I would've thrown a joke in there to find out how she reacted if I were you.

Me: You know what goes with blue eyes?
Bartender: Not really
Me: Blue underwear!
Bartender: I don't wear underwear

You're in like Flynn if she says that.
 

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Bartender: you have very blue eyes.
Me: I know
Her: I like em
Me: thank you

Bartender: you have very blue eyes.
Me: I know
Her: I like em
Me: And what are you going to do about it?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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As I write this I am in my favorite bar. A bartender who I have been acquainted with for a couple months said;

Bartender: you have very blue eyes.
Me: I know
Her: I like em
Me: thank you
Her: I wish I had blue eyes,
Me; you should be proud of what you have.
Her: my mom has Blue eyes.
She is hot. Do you think there is potential?
Potential for you to give her a bigger tip? Yes, yes indeed
 

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Thank god you still have them (your eyes)
 
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