"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Bartender compliments my eyes

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As I write this I am in my favorite bar. A bartender who I have been acquainted with for a couple months said;

Bartender: you have very blue eyes.
Me: I know
Her: I like em
Me: thank you
Her: I wish I had blue eyes,
Me; you should be proud of what you have.
Her: my mom has Blue eyes.
She is hot. Do you think there is potential?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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IKO69

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Pretty soon she is gonna drop the hammer and tell you that is so interesting and to impress her by buying another beer
 

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Was that it?
Man......that was edgy as hell




I'm kidding! It sounded really funny to be honest.
I would've thrown a joke in there to find out how she reacted if I were you.

Me: You know what goes with blue eyes?
Bartender: Not really
Me: Blue underwear!
Bartender: I don't wear underwear

You're in like Flynn if she says that.
 

The Diver

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Bartender: you have very blue eyes.
Me: I know
Her: I like em
Me: thank you

Bartender: you have very blue eyes.
Me: I know
Her: I like em
Me: And what are you going to do about it?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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marmel75

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As I write this I am in my favorite bar. A bartender who I have been acquainted with for a couple months said;

Bartender: you have very blue eyes.
Me: I know
Her: I like em
Me: thank you
Her: I wish I had blue eyes,
Me; you should be proud of what you have.
Her: my mom has Blue eyes.
She is hot. Do you think there is potential?
Potential for you to give her a bigger tip? Yes, yes indeed
 

Focal core

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Thank god you still have them (your eyes)
 
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