"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Bars install computers so you can chat with chicks at another table

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Rhoto

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It's all about the money and the integration of technology and the human consciousness until they become one.

It's called evolution, and the telescopic effect of evolution indicates that this will occur with in the generation.

I think it will add a new dynamic to the scene, but not change the fundamental approach and chat.
 

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What!? Computers in a bar to chat with someone in the same place? I knew technology is taking over how we communicate.

I like the cheesy pick-up lines too! :rolleyes:
 

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...special software called “Flirt” that lets you flirt with people at other tables.
Flirt even reportedly suggests pick up lines, like:

"Apart from being sexy, what do you do for a living?"


If she replies, "This is what I do for a living," that means she's a hooker.
 
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