"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Bars install computers so you can chat with chicks at another table

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Rhoto

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It's all about the money and the integration of technology and the human consciousness until they become one.

It's called evolution, and the telescopic effect of evolution indicates that this will occur with in the generation.

I think it will add a new dynamic to the scene, but not change the fundamental approach and chat.
 

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What!? Computers in a bar to chat with someone in the same place? I knew technology is taking over how we communicate.

I like the cheesy pick-up lines too! :rolleyes:
 

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...special software called “Flirt” that lets you flirt with people at other tables.
Flirt even reportedly suggests pick up lines, like:

"Apart from being sexy, what do you do for a living?"


If she replies, "This is what I do for a living," that means she's a hooker.
 
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