"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Barely know her and she sees me as a friend already...

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Elf2

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I'm a senior..the girls a freshman.

I got her number...just some texts here and there. Was talking to some girl that was friends with her and it turns out she told the girl that I tohught she was beautiful blah blah...and the girl says that she only sees me as a friend.

Although I barely know her! How is this possible? I'm guessing this means she doesn't find me attractive? So I'm pretty much ****ed with any future with this girl? Move on? If so, I don't want to.

Is there anything else I can do?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Charm&Style

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Your in high school bro...go live your life, party, be active with events that go on, flirt around, be fun and out going, ignore her, be cool with her friends and eventualy youll spark up interest in her.
 
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KillaCam

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You created no attraction.

Push/Pull, C&F, all that garbage people go on about actually works.

She doesn't need to know she's beautiful. If anything, she needs to know you think she oughta scrub up a bit to get your attention. Being put it in the friend-zone takes a split second. Hit the DJ Bible and arm yourself with techniques to kick that zone in the nuts and pound her brains out.

As C&S said, you're in high school, go have fun man :up: An aloof, enjoyable attitude will bring a lot of fun.
 
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