"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Barely know her and she sees me as a friend already...

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Elf2

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I'm a senior..the girls a freshman.

I got her number...just some texts here and there. Was talking to some girl that was friends with her and it turns out she told the girl that I tohught she was beautiful blah blah...and the girl says that she only sees me as a friend.

Although I barely know her! How is this possible? I'm guessing this means she doesn't find me attractive? So I'm pretty much ****ed with any future with this girl? Move on? If so, I don't want to.

Is there anything else I can do?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Charm&Style

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Your in high school bro...go live your life, party, be active with events that go on, flirt around, be fun and out going, ignore her, be cool with her friends and eventualy youll spark up interest in her.
 
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KillaCam

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You created no attraction.

Push/Pull, C&F, all that garbage people go on about actually works.

She doesn't need to know she's beautiful. If anything, she needs to know you think she oughta scrub up a bit to get your attention. Being put it in the friend-zone takes a split second. Hit the DJ Bible and arm yourself with techniques to kick that zone in the nuts and pound her brains out.

As C&S said, you're in high school, go have fun man :up: An aloof, enjoyable attitude will bring a lot of fun.
 
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