Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

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Barbell Row Plateau

yungahdubz

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My first stall on the barbell row was at 38.5kg, this was on the 6th of May

Now on the 6th of July i managed to complete 40kg for 5x5, a PR.

In the space of 2 months i managed to get my barbell row up 1.5kg, i mean wtf, i just dont know what is up with my rows. Whenever i have to do them next and i stall, which i do pretty much every time i do these, i get so angry, they make me feel like killing little kittens.

Over two weeks after my barbell row PR, im still stuck. My numbers have actually gone down. Today i did 3/2/2/1/1 with 40kg.

I'd really appreciate ANY help in order to raise the numbers on this.

I'm rowing 3x a week, this is the only exercise i do for my biceps.
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

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So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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EFFORT

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eat more food :)
 

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Listen to effort or change the type of rows you are doing for a while. Actually do both.

Are you doing 90 degree rows or that 45 degree nonsense?

Is everything else still gaining? Possibly just do a reset on the rows. Set it back like 15 lbs (what is that 6.8 kg) and work your way back to your old PR and you'll probably surpass it.

Also are you cheating the row by using your hips?
 

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Try DB rows for 3 weeks.

Also, no reason not to train your biceps really, you're leaving more room for weak links in your rows. Throw in 3 sets of biceps maybe?

keep putting that protein down ladddd
 

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I'm rowing at 90 degress, with no hip involvment.

My Box pistols are increasing, but its no surpirse considering i have only been doing them a short while. My OHP isn't doing so well, i deloaded from 42.5kg, im trying it again tomorrow.

Also, what would you suggest for exercises for my biceps/ alternate rows?

I shoulg be alternating between pulls/chins and rows but i have no pull up bar so can't do them :/. Got told i should just do barbell rows 3x a week if got no pullup bar.
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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playa99

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add in some preacher curls and try different grips
also up your calories and find somewhere to do pullups
 

shaunuk

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Try t-bar rows or DB rows. My fav are DB rows and they do carryover to BB rows.

Biceps: barbell curls, alt. DB curls, preacher curls, 3x10 or something of an exercise
 

yungahdubz

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Cheers for the advice lads.

I'll do some t-bar rows to help break the plateau.


Btw, whats the difference between BB/DB Rows and BB/DB Curls, aren't they basically the same thing, or am i being silly?
 
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I don't think you could go too far wrong getting some kettlebells. These are great for developing your back.
 
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