"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Barbell Row Plateau

yungahdubz

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My first stall on the barbell row was at 38.5kg, this was on the 6th of May

Now on the 6th of July i managed to complete 40kg for 5x5, a PR.

In the space of 2 months i managed to get my barbell row up 1.5kg, i mean wtf, i just dont know what is up with my rows. Whenever i have to do them next and i stall, which i do pretty much every time i do these, i get so angry, they make me feel like killing little kittens.

Over two weeks after my barbell row PR, im still stuck. My numbers have actually gone down. Today i did 3/2/2/1/1 with 40kg.

I'd really appreciate ANY help in order to raise the numbers on this.

I'm rowing 3x a week, this is the only exercise i do for my biceps.
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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EFFORT

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eat more food :)
 

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Listen to effort or change the type of rows you are doing for a while. Actually do both.

Are you doing 90 degree rows or that 45 degree nonsense?

Is everything else still gaining? Possibly just do a reset on the rows. Set it back like 15 lbs (what is that 6.8 kg) and work your way back to your old PR and you'll probably surpass it.

Also are you cheating the row by using your hips?
 

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Try DB rows for 3 weeks.

Also, no reason not to train your biceps really, you're leaving more room for weak links in your rows. Throw in 3 sets of biceps maybe?

keep putting that protein down ladddd
 

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I'm rowing at 90 degress, with no hip involvment.

My Box pistols are increasing, but its no surpirse considering i have only been doing them a short while. My OHP isn't doing so well, i deloaded from 42.5kg, im trying it again tomorrow.

Also, what would you suggest for exercises for my biceps/ alternate rows?

I shoulg be alternating between pulls/chins and rows but i have no pull up bar so can't do them :/. Got told i should just do barbell rows 3x a week if got no pullup bar.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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playa99

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add in some preacher curls and try different grips
also up your calories and find somewhere to do pullups
 

shaunuk

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Try t-bar rows or DB rows. My fav are DB rows and they do carryover to BB rows.

Biceps: barbell curls, alt. DB curls, preacher curls, 3x10 or something of an exercise
 

yungahdubz

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Cheers for the advice lads.

I'll do some t-bar rows to help break the plateau.


Btw, whats the difference between BB/DB Rows and BB/DB Curls, aren't they basically the same thing, or am i being silly?
 
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I don't think you could go too far wrong getting some kettlebells. These are great for developing your back.
 
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