"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Bar weight question

Hockey Playa

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Quick Question: I do my incline on the smith machine, the one where it slides up and down and has has the clasps where you can put it at any level. If anyone knows what im talking about, do you know the approximate weight of that bar so i can fill out my workout journal i just started :).....im assuming its the usual 45 bar, but just want to make sure


P.S anyone know what a workout journal should include: i have Bodypart, exercise, sets, reps..
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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It's not exactly 45lbs. I think it's something like 56, but it is calibrated and some of the weight is offset by the fact that it's no free-weight, so I just use 45 in all my calculations.
 

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Hockey Playa said:
Quick Question: I do my incline on the smith machine, the one where it slides up and down and has has the clasps where you can put it at any level. If anyone knows what im talking about, do you know the approximate weight of that bar so i can fill out my workout journal i just started :).....im assuming its the usual 45 bar, but just want to make sure


P.S anyone know what a workout journal should include: i have Bodypart, exercise, sets, reps..
I can't answer the question but for me, I don't count bar weight on the smith machine. If I'm logging I'll just write, "245lbs smith."

It's usual to be able to lift quite a bit more on the smith machine than free weights, so it important to make the distinction. Benching a barbell with 2 45's on each side DOES NOT EQUAL a smith machine with 2 45's pm each side.

As for the journal, include rest (like Kerpal said) and I think the most important thing is perceived intensity. I use a scale 1-10. You'd be suprised how an excersice can be perceived as a 6 one day and a 9 another.
 
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