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user43770
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You're being unoriginal.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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- Thread starter Spaz
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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user43770
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Man, I wouldn't even bother you if you didn't post in EVERY SINGLE THREAD.
But then you also have the nerve to hijack ideas and make them your own.
Soft middle, you have.
It's normal for subpar men to be jealous of me.
This is not something new nor special when they try to seek attention through me.
Now you know why I say u r worse then useless.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
EyeOnThePrize
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i think so. the power to avoid misunderstandings between two people
and you're probably alluding to one of the reasons i came here, because writing out ideas solidifies them in the mind, creating more foundation for growth.
@TyTe`EyEz i don't think Spaz was trying to steal an idea, I don't feel like that anyway, and even if he was what difference does it make? i don't think anyone in this thread has claimed to have an original idea. like you said all of this has been talked into the ground. i've been reading old threads here by people that i find interesting, so my ideas probably aren't original at all lol. i also post on here a lot because SS works well on mobile, so i post en route mostly. but what i think Spaz is talking about is that simply posting and defining this stuff helps turn plans into execution. if i constantly read about self improvement/natural seduction and later regurgitate the info and post about self improvement/natural seduction, i'm only solidifying the ideas in my mind further. Spaz may point out something that appears unclear because i may i have glossed over something that needs more attention.
you have your role too. you test and hone our temperament with your abrasive nature
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user43770
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Cower down, boy. You don't run this place.
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It does for me. Writing them out clarifies understanding and/or deepens it. Some are just here to debate or one up. But that’s about them. The internet makes it easy to be a bad a$$. When in fact they're a poodle with its hair dyed pink.i think so. the power to avoid misunderstandings between two people
and you're probably alluding to one of the reasons i came here, because writing out ideas solidifies them in the mind, creating more foundation
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Loveshack is a joke. The site is moderated by women, beta cucks and the only thing they have in common is utter ignorance about the nature of two genders and absolute hypocrisy.
Basically, no matter how civil, well-mannered, and polite you display through your posts, the moment you say anything that goes against their man-hating ideology, you're gone.
Basically, no matter how civil, well-mannered, and polite you display through your posts, the moment you say anything that goes against their man-hating ideology, you're gone.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Who Dares Win
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Did you resurrect a 2 yrs old thread for which reason?
If you're concerned from spaz's ban there dont worry, he probably has already a couple active fakes just like here.
I imagine people still want to vent about by getting banned from LS. I was banned myself, I couldn’t have civil debates with the feminists and social justice snowflakes, but that was on me, not the mods. They gave me repeated fair warnings, and I pushed it further each time.