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user43770
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You're being unoriginal.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Banned in Loveshack.org
- Thread starter Spaz
- Start date
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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user43770
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Man, I wouldn't even bother you if you didn't post in EVERY SINGLE THREAD.
But then you also have the nerve to hijack ideas and make them your own.
Soft middle, you have.
It's normal for subpar men to be jealous of me.
This is not something new nor special when they try to seek attention through me.
Now you know why I say u r worse then useless.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
EyeOnThePrize
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i think so. the power to avoid misunderstandings between two people
and you're probably alluding to one of the reasons i came here, because writing out ideas solidifies them in the mind, creating more foundation for growth.
@TyTe`EyEz i don't think Spaz was trying to steal an idea, I don't feel like that anyway, and even if he was what difference does it make? i don't think anyone in this thread has claimed to have an original idea. like you said all of this has been talked into the ground. i've been reading old threads here by people that i find interesting, so my ideas probably aren't original at all lol. i also post on here a lot because SS works well on mobile, so i post en route mostly. but what i think Spaz is talking about is that simply posting and defining this stuff helps turn plans into execution. if i constantly read about self improvement/natural seduction and later regurgitate the info and post about self improvement/natural seduction, i'm only solidifying the ideas in my mind further. Spaz may point out something that appears unclear because i may i have glossed over something that needs more attention.
you have your role too. you test and hone our temperament with your abrasive nature
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user43770
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Cower down, boy. You don't run this place.
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It does for me. Writing them out clarifies understanding and/or deepens it. Some are just here to debate or one up. But that’s about them. The internet makes it easy to be a bad a$$. When in fact they're a poodle with its hair dyed pink.i think so. the power to avoid misunderstandings between two people
and you're probably alluding to one of the reasons i came here, because writing out ideas solidifies them in the mind, creating more foundation
manfrombelow
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Loveshack is a joke. The site is moderated by women, beta cucks and the only thing they have in common is utter ignorance about the nature of two genders and absolute hypocrisy.
Basically, no matter how civil, well-mannered, and polite you display through your posts, the moment you say anything that goes against their man-hating ideology, you're gone.
Basically, no matter how civil, well-mannered, and polite you display through your posts, the moment you say anything that goes against their man-hating ideology, you're gone.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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Did you resurrect a 2 yrs old thread for which reason?
If you're concerned from spaz's ban there dont worry, he probably has already a couple active fakes just like here.
I imagine people still want to vent about by getting banned from LS. I was banned myself, I couldn’t have civil debates with the feminists and social justice snowflakes, but that was on me, not the mods. They gave me repeated fair warnings, and I pushed it further each time.