Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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So I got sick of all the bellyaching from bitter men on this site and thought it might be interesting to join another forum. I joined theattractionforums.com which is run by Mystery. Fairly piss-poor boards but at least less bitterness, right?

So I went to the 30+ year old forum and saw a couple of friggin 18 year olds posting there telling some guy over 30 that he shouldn't be dating younger women. I told him not to listen to them and some dork moderator by the name of CMPitts came in, deleted my posts, and banned me! Well, CMPitts is a pathetic douchebag. They get like 2 posts a day in the over-30 part of the board--seems like they wouldn't want to piss off some new guy trying to keep the 18 year old trolls away.

So anyway, looks like I'm back here. If there's one thing worse than no moderators it's moderators with inch-long ****s, that's for sure. :)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Why don't you get in your white knight costume and start a site b!thcing about bitter men.

Half of these females hate us and are bitter, so why not even the score?
 
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Good to see you getting along nicely everywhere you go. :p
 
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Does this gossipy b!tching thread belong in the Mature Men's forum?
 
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She tried to take me to the cleaners, and ruin my life with a smile on her face.

Thank GOD I am bitter, or I wouldn't have seen it coming
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Zarky said:
So I got sick of all the bellyaching from bitter men on this site ...
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You certainly have an interesting way of expressing your feelings -perhaps not the most effective tactic if you wish to be heard by us "bitter men " .
Anyway welcome back to Bellyaching Central.
 
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Bluntmaster said:
She tried to take me to the cleaners, and ruin my life with a smile on her face.

Thank GOD I am bitter, or I wouldn't have seen it coming
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Fvcking A right!!! When it happens to ole Zark, he will see why many appear bitter! Then when he gets a good one, he will ease up. Just like anything in life. Good with the bad, but when you are getting bad it is personal.

TREAT ME GOOD, I WILL TREAT YOU BETTER. TREAT ME BAD AND I WILL TREAT YOU WORSE.
 
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ive noticed theres a lot of kids on that forum , the sort who think they "know it all"

dont worry the game used there is kinda lame,
 
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Zarky said:
So anyway, looks like I'm back here. If there's one thing worse than no moderators it's moderators with inch-long ****s, that's for sure. :)
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So the grass is not greener...lol. Oh BTW, I don't post much anymore but I am here. Reading...banning...moving threads...silently.

So don't be a dumbass and say there are no Mods here...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Seriously. Go over to Love Shack - http://www.loveshack.org

Read the posts for about 3 days. Then come back here and tell us how bitter, misogynistic and misguided everyone is.
 
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Rollo Tomassi said:
Seriously. Go over to Love Shack - http://www.loveshack.org

Read the posts for about 3 days. Then come back here and tell us how bitter, misogynistic and misguided everyone is.
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Right on!!! I remember several years ago being on that God awful AFC site. I was an AFC that was hoping my oneitis would act right. Then I found the light soon after when coming here. Most of the principles discussed here are closer to being dead on than loveshack. There is much whining and crying about love sick idiots over there. Hey, I was there once, but even if we get a little bitter at times, this site is still the $hit!!! I do recall on Loveshack that A LOT of women seemed to be more bitter on it and guys seemed to be actually more hurt. If that makes sense. I guess bitter is hurt with a tons of anger.
 
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Rollo Tomassi said:
Seriously. Go over to Love Shack - http://www.loveshack.org

Read the posts for about 3 days. Then come back here and tell us how bitter, misogynistic and misguided everyone is.
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loveshack is the springer show of online internet forums. After a few minutes, you just shake your head and wonder "what the hell is wrong with these people!?!"

But, yeah, try that for 3 days you'll be insane at the end.
 
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