"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Bank Pickup. Need suggestions.

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There's a cute hispanic girl working at my bank. She's been giving me all the buying signals and seems to have it bad for me. Problem is she works the drive thru and I can't get a chance to talk to her.

I need to cash a check and I think I know what line she works. Think a note with my deposit seems a little childish? I wouldn't consider it if she wasn't a submissive type girl and seems to have very high interest.

What should it say? I need to make something happen with this girl. I guess I could talk to her through the microphone but it gets broadcast through the bank. hah
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I think a note could work if it's not too cliche or over the top. A little c/f could work.
 
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ya on the microphone when she says may i help you just say "YA I WANT TO CASH MY CHECK AND 1 OTHER THING.........CAN U GIVE ME RECIEPT WITH YOUR FIRST NAME AND PHONE NUMBER WRIITEN ON BACK.

OR endorse your check with a sticky note, saying you are kinda cute, wanna do lunch.
 
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Write her a note - "This is a "stick-up" give me your name and phone number and nobody gets hurt!"
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Personally I would avoid taking my hot banker out on a date. Because let's just say if it doesn't work out, and you have to consistently go back to the bank, it's going to be awkward.

Even though I have a banker I occasionally "hit on" in a friendly way, I still wouldn't ask for her # because to me it's just a professional business relationship I have with her.

And also since she has access to all my financial information (how much I save, make, etc.), it's just weird. And I don't want to sound negative but she might be all "nice and friendly" because that is part of her job, but you never know! But I honestly would avoid this, but if you really want it the sticky note idea seems kinda cool :yes:
 
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Its only awkward if you let it be, If you find a way to ask her to go out with you and she rejects you its most likely going to be in a friendly way... just tell her you respect whatever her reason is and there wont be much more to it unless you try to continue to beat around the bush
 
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Didn't get to the bank today. I'll give it a shot tomorrow..

As far as awkward, I'm not too worried about it. She never works the front desk and she can check out my bank account if she wants. She'll know straight away she can't live off me.

I can tell the difference between genuine and fake interest. Its in the eyes.
 
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I found myself in a similar situation with a hot bank tellar. I was going to do a note thing...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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