"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Bank account numbers for credit check?

spesmilitis

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So I'm filling out a credit check form for this house I want to rent and it it's asking for my savings and checkings account number. Is this legit?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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OzyBoy

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If you are not sure don't give them the numbers first until you know it is legitimate because they might try and take money out of your accounts if you are not careful. :D
 

Skel

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That is fishy. They may ask for bank statements but for the actual account numbers, have never had to give those myself.
 

theunflushables

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The place I am living at had me do that too. My landlord didn't even run a check on me in the end, and my account has not been touched. Use discrection though.
 
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