"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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banging those girls in your classes

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So, there's a few girls in my classes that I'm pretty sure are warm to my approach (there's a few others that I've already worked). How do you discreetly get with these girls with as little risk as possible? The possibility of getting rejected and then having to see them every day is there, which is exactly why I'm not moving as fast as I regularly do. Do you setup the study date or do you just tell them you think they're cute and ask to grab a cup of coffee?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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In continual social settings like classes together you just need to keep things casual and OPEN. Be your own person, be friendly, be receptive, be responsive and make opportunities to get together and do things.

When class lets out ask her(whoever you're currently eyeing) out:
You: Hey hb8, wait up.
Her: Whats up?
You: what are you doing saturday? You wanna go see <new movie> with me?
Her: Sure.
You: <make arrangements and move on with your day>

or

Her: I can't/whatever excuse she hands you.
You: Cool. Maybe some other time. <move on with your day>

This keeps it open and unassuming. There should be no awkwardness and, if anything, she has now been made aware of you interest and may rethink it.
 

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You can drop subtle hints by indirectly asking them out. Say "Hey are u guys going to that event on campus??? you wanna meet up before a grab some drinks??" If a girl is into you she will let it be known... eg. she will agree, give you her contact info, give you serious eye contact... etc.

Sometimes I will even make-up fake sh*t like... "My buddy is having a football fundraiser at this bar... do you wanna come with your friends". Then after she gives you her contact info... I might call her later and say that we aren't going, but ask if she still wants to do something sometime.
 

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Study together, and work your charms. Seriously, if a girl can have a good time studying with you, you're like most of the way to the P already.

Here's how a lot of my college hookups went:

1. Me: "Hey when do you study for this class? Lets do homework together"
2. Be consistent with studying with her for a few weeks while building rapport. Not even trying to seduce. Just being myself and getting her to laugh/tell me about herself
(If you pass her looks test and she isn't a prude, you're like pretty much there already. It's just a matter of giving her opportunities)
3. Me: "hey what you doing tonight? Me and roomates are playing beer pong at my place. bring some of your cool girlfriends" (100% of girls in college like beerpong)
4. If the opportunity is there hook up. If not just keep studying with her, and she will probably invite you to stuff herself. Have her over whenever you're doing something. You *will* hook up eventually.

This happened to me a lot of times, even when i was really just trying to find a study buddy. Apply something similar
 
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