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banging those girls in your classes

blueline

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So, there's a few girls in my classes that I'm pretty sure are warm to my approach (there's a few others that I've already worked). How do you discreetly get with these girls with as little risk as possible? The possibility of getting rejected and then having to see them every day is there, which is exactly why I'm not moving as fast as I regularly do. Do you setup the study date or do you just tell them you think they're cute and ask to grab a cup of coffee?
 

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In continual social settings like classes together you just need to keep things casual and OPEN. Be your own person, be friendly, be receptive, be responsive and make opportunities to get together and do things.

When class lets out ask her(whoever you're currently eyeing) out:
You: Hey hb8, wait up.
Her: Whats up?
You: what are you doing saturday? You wanna go see <new movie> with me?
Her: Sure.
You: <make arrangements and move on with your day>

or

Her: I can't/whatever excuse she hands you.
You: Cool. Maybe some other time. <move on with your day>

This keeps it open and unassuming. There should be no awkwardness and, if anything, she has now been made aware of you interest and may rethink it.
 

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You can drop subtle hints by indirectly asking them out. Say "Hey are u guys going to that event on campus??? you wanna meet up before a grab some drinks??" If a girl is into you she will let it be known... eg. she will agree, give you her contact info, give you serious eye contact... etc.

Sometimes I will even make-up fake sh*t like... "My buddy is having a football fundraiser at this bar... do you wanna come with your friends". Then after she gives you her contact info... I might call her later and say that we aren't going, but ask if she still wants to do something sometime.
 

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Study together, and work your charms. Seriously, if a girl can have a good time studying with you, you're like most of the way to the P already.

Here's how a lot of my college hookups went:

1. Me: "Hey when do you study for this class? Lets do homework together"
2. Be consistent with studying with her for a few weeks while building rapport. Not even trying to seduce. Just being myself and getting her to laugh/tell me about herself
(If you pass her looks test and she isn't a prude, you're like pretty much there already. It's just a matter of giving her opportunities)
3. Me: "hey what you doing tonight? Me and roomates are playing beer pong at my place. bring some of your cool girlfriends" (100% of girls in college like beerpong)
4. If the opportunity is there hook up. If not just keep studying with her, and she will probably invite you to stuff herself. Have her over whenever you're doing something. You *will* hook up eventually.

This happened to me a lot of times, even when i was really just trying to find a study buddy. Apply something similar
 
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