"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Do you feel that any girl you've banged in the past you could bang again without difficulty? Thats generally my feeling. Even the ones that get married would probably stray under the right circumstances to have a taste of the past.

this was quoted from Ricky on the bi-sexual thread. and there was no answer, so i decided to make a thread out of it. while this is generally my experience as well, there are exceptions. any comments?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Thanks for bringing this up. I think there are a few responses guys might have to this. Some will say, why bang an old ex? I say because after awhile they become like new *****. It takes less effort than bringing a new one in and it can keep you sexually taken care of especially in between relationships.

Here's why I think women are more likely to do this.

1) They feel less slutty being with you since they've already had sex with you before.

2) They trust you a bit more, assuming the relationship didnt go horribly bad.

I'd like to see others perspective on this.

There are some absolute sex kittens freaks I've been with in the past that I wouldn't mind banging again.

What are the keys to getting them?

When I've gotten with an ex before, it wasn't as simple as a quick phone call (hey I'm back in town).

No I had to call them at least a while in advance. Hey I'm going to be in town, it would be great to see you sometime. If I have a chance I'll stop by.

Then arrange to meet her, but make sure it's later at night.

If she doesn't have a boyfriend that's she serious about you are 90% there.
 
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Yes, It could be pretty easy. But, it depends how she feels about you now and if she has a boyfriend now.
 
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In a similar situation right now. My rule of thumb is don't go back to banging an ex unless you're COMPLETELY over her. Even then, it's a little risky. Next thing you know, you're waking up the next morning, going to lunch, etc. Don't get back into the vicious cycle. **** her then leave.
 
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WC2 said:
My rule of thumb is don't go back to banging an ex unless you're COMPLETELY over her.
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I agree 100% with this. Otherwise your headed for drama & headaches. Even if you are completely over here, there's likely to be drama & headaches.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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